Data Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 Ok, I reply to posts from my own personal experience, thats all I can do. I accept that Dice is a very different person to me and maybe it was not intended to be a fantasy. However, I think that was not clear from the content and my interpretation was a perfectly reasonable one. It was something that could easily be an erotic story on some of the sites I have visited...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dani Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 like i said before everybody interprets poems differently. but i think right now dice needs support. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paris Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 when people read poetry or prose or any literature they do get different views and have different opinions yes! BUT this was so obviously not a fantasy, just because you have had such fantasies doesnt mean we all do!!! and i will stick up for dice here her pain is quite clearly showing through! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanctuary Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 yet again data ha managed to completely disrupt someone's attempt to reach out for support by his inapprpriate comment followed by the same old pattern of apologising, then recinding again an reverting not only back to being offensive but adding icing to it too!! Data when will u ever learn? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Data Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 I accept that my comment was inappropriate. I have not recinded my apology. However I feel that Dice's original post was inappropriate. And I am not the offensive one here. Dice, who you are so keen to stick up for, is the one who is foul-mouthed and nasty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paris Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 i personally dont feel it was inappropriate at all, it had trigger warnings so if people are sensitive to such stuff then maybe dont read it? i think we can all bite back and be foul mouthed at times i would be if someone has basically said they were turned on by one of my posts Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Data Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 Well I apologised for that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanctuary Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 I accept that my comment was inappropriate. However I feel that Dice's original post was inappropriate. That is blatant bullshit! You Liar! If you thought it was inappropriate then why didn't you say so? She specifically asked for people's opinions and advice on whether or not it should be removed? You interests in this post have been selfish from the start and that has not changed throughout. You do not ahve the capacity for understanding or compassion in this case becuase you now fail to see that the FIRST thing that went wrong with you in the equation was your inability to stay away from Dice's post at her request. You have triggered me in the past on something very important to me and this whole episode is a reminder of how angry I was that I was denied true support on that occassion. Dice I am so sorry man.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Data Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 How dare you accuse me of being a liar! I said it was inappropriate right from the start. My original comment said that. I edited it out when dice edited out hers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dice Posted January 27, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 I accept that my comment was inappropriate. However I feel that Dice's original post was inappropriate. That is blatant bullshit! You Liar! If you thought it was inappropriate then why didn't you say so? She specifically asked for people's opinions and advice on whether or not it should be removed? You interests in this post have been selfish from the start and that has not changed throughout. You do not ahve the capacity for understanding or compassion in this case becuase you now fail to see that the FIRST thing that went wrong with you in the equation was your inability to stay away from Dice's post at her request. You have triggered me in the past on something very important to me and this whole episode is a reminder of how angry I was that I was denied true support on that occassion. Dice I am so sorry man.... Dude you got nothing to be sorry for ... I am just keeping quiet now before I really go mad... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Data Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 Oh sod it this is not doing anyone good I am logging off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paris Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 oh come on she isnt a manhater at all!!! i have seen no evidence of this anywhere at all! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dice Posted January 27, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 OH AGAIN BRING THAT UP... IS THAT ALL YOU HAVE... ME BEING A MEN HATER... THEY IS WOMEN HATERS OUT THERE TOO... GET OVER YOURSELF... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanctuary Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 fuck it dice this is awful... i'm so sorry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dice Posted January 27, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 fuck it dice this is awful... i'm so sorry You have nothing to be sorry for dude... I am the one who is SORRY for posting it for sharing it with people on here, For every thing... I am sorry... But I am not sorry for going at someone and never will be sorry for that... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ruth24 Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 Dice, I'm sorry that i didn't get the chance to read it. I'm sorry you felt you had to remove it. Ingrid x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marchmadness Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 Dice - You really dont need to apologize for posting, it is up to each of us to take responsibility for the threads we read. If at the start you know it is a trigger then stay away from it, dont continue to read the post. So no you can not take on others issues. If you put a label on it Dice that is was a trigger, then that is all you are responsible for. Not everything on here can be sensored, we are adults and our choice as to what we deal with and what we choose to stuff away. Sorry if you are not getting the support you need at the moment. Data - This is a very touchy subject here, you said that because of the other sites you visit it lead you to the conclusion that the person wanted it. All I can say is wow. Not everyone sees things from your point of view, just like you dont see others. Maybe if you know you feel very strongly about a thread before you reply think about what you want to say. Also what it is bringing up in you. March Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dice Posted January 27, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 Well I did say to people, Would they like me to take it off or not and I did take it off because they wanted it off, I do keep to my word... I am not here to upset hurt or trigger any one, And I am sorry if I have *Not sorry for any thing to some one tho *... I was stupid anuff for sharing it on here... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roses Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 Dice, I'm so sorry it's all my fault. I re-acted badly initially but I was stupid, please forgive me. I really do understand, I can't say it enough. I feel truly horrible for all this. xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dice Posted January 27, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 Dice, I'm so sorry it's all my fault. I re-acted badly initially but I was stupid, please forgive me. I really do understand, I can't say it enough. I feel truly horrible for all this. xxx Its fine, It was not just you Roses so please don't think it was and I know more people would of read it and more thn likely though the same but won't say any thing to me about it... I was stupid anuff for sharing it so... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ruth24 Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 Dice, You should not have felt pressured into removing it, and i'm sorry you were made to feel that way. From what i have heard or read on this thread it was in creative corner and had a trigger warning. You did everything right. Again, from what i have read on this thread, it sounds like it was a very personal piece of creativity and i doubt it was easy to write. Well done for being so brave, I'm sorry the response was not what should have been expected. Praise and support. Ingrid x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dice Posted January 27, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 Dice, You should not have felt pressured into removing it, and i'm sorry you were made to feel that way. From what i have heard or read on this thread it was in creative corner and had a trigger warning. You did everything right. Again, from what i have read on this thread, it sounds like it was a very personal piece of creativity and i doubt it was easy to write. Well done for being so brave, I'm sorry the response was not what should have been expected. Praise and support. Ingrid x Well like I keep saying I ain't here to upset, hurt or trigger any one... So I took it off... Well its no shock to know what people said and think of it, I know what this place is like so... Its one of them things and next time I shall keep it all to myself and not share things like that ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Data Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 This is a very touchy subject here, you said that because of the other sites you visit it lead you to the conclusion that the person wanted it. All I can say is wow. Not everyone sees things from your point of view, just like you dont see others. I see that you did not reply to my earlier post, in which I asked if you read the original post. So I am going to assume that you did not. I think you are totally out of line in saying this. The character in Dice's story said explicitly that they "wanted to suck cock". At no stage was a lack of consent mentioned anywhere. I was not lead to this conclusion by visiting other sites, but by the words she used. By commenting on the post (which people cannot see) you have been unfair to me since you are giving people the impression that I condone sexual abuse. I would like to make it very clear that I do not think that victims of sexual abuse "want it" or "deserve it" in any way. Perhaps before you criticise people for their interpretations in future, when the original source is not available, you should make it clear whether you have read it or not and say why you think the person is wrong rather making comments that could be misinterpreted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marchmadness Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 Data - For the record yeah I did read it, and that is why I made my reply to you. I didnt want to reply and not have been aware of all the facts. March Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bena.baby Posted January 27, 2010 Report Share Posted January 27, 2010 I think it's fair to say that anything posted on a mental health site of a sexual nature is not posted there for the purposes of turning anyone on. If that is the result, I don't think it's ok to voice it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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