toaster Posted January 4, 2011 Report Share Posted January 4, 2011 no aries just this whole post is bonkers! people have offered advice and support, including you, and the original poster hasnt taken any of it yet it continues! so dont worry it isnt u xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Octavian10 Posted January 5, 2011 Author Report Share Posted January 5, 2011 i mean why are the police involved, you dont give us much info every story has 2 sides to it aries hun, i think you really need to try to let this thread out of your head, and forget about him. you have tried to help, and that's all you did. you are not a bad person, you are an amazing person, who was just trying to help somebody. you need to look after yourself, and when it is affecting your well being you need to please try to take a step back away from the situation and look after yourself. please please try to put it out of your head. you are number one. look after YOU! The police are involved because I complained to the police about the unfair dismissal and the criminal antecedents of those who engineered it. I , too, have a right to suggest that abusive elements please stop trolling on my thread and exchange their 'ist' sentiments in another forum or another thread instead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Octavian10 Posted January 6, 2011 Author Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 I guess I will be receiving no further posts supportive or otherwise on this thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aries20 Posted January 6, 2011 Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 do you blame us??? when all you do is throw it back in our faces Bye Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Octavian10 Posted January 6, 2011 Author Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 do you blame us??? when all you do is throw it back in our faces Bye All I have said is that the solutions you offer are not workable. I have not thrown anything at anyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanctuary Posted January 6, 2011 Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 reveal all in life stories... let us have time to digest the true nature of the help u require Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aries20 Posted January 6, 2011 Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 yes you have and i am not going to get into arguments with you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thezenfairy Posted January 6, 2011 Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 I don't think this person wants to be helped. In fact, the more I read of it, the more I am beginning to question whether it is even a genuine post. This is a forum for people who suffer from depression to support each other, not a legal advice forum! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Octavian10 Posted January 6, 2011 Author Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 I don't think this person wants to be helped. In fact, the more I read of it, the more I am beginning to question whether it is even a genuine post. This is a forum for people who suffer from depression to support each other, not a legal advice forum! But when have I asked for legal advice? People here tend to latch on to irrelevant details and shoot off on tangents Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thezenfairy Posted January 6, 2011 Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 So, as has been asked by many others before me, what exactly DO you want?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jillv Posted January 6, 2011 Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 We cannot give legal advice or medical advice,if we are not trained to do so. But what we can offer is support. That has been offered to you in abundance, and you have thrown it back in people's faces. No-one knows the full facts of your dismissal, so it is very difficult to even give an opinion. And imo if you were this obnoxious with your employer, I'd say I can see why they were reluctant to have you working for them. Everyone here who has replied to your posts have done so because they don't care to see another person suffering, and the fact that people are getting pissed off with you is not surprising. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanctuary Posted January 6, 2011 Report Share Posted January 6, 2011 What's it like being you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrippleAndStarfish Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 Is this all the support I can get on this web-site? With regards to this matter, I'd guess the answer would be "yes". So kind of you to utter a simple thankyou to the many members who have taken the time to reply, to offer you advice and support when they themselves are struggling, by the way - even if it's not suitable for this situation in which you've found yourself. I'm really glad you've not thrown their efforts back in their faces. <_< Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Octavian10 Posted January 7, 2011 Author Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 With regards to this matter, I'd guess the answer would be "yes". So kind of you to utter a simple thankyou to the many members who have taken the time to reply, to offer you advice and support when they themselves are struggling, by the way - even if it's not suitable for this situation in which you've found yourself. I'm really glad you've not thrown their efforts back in their faces. I have either been grateful or I have not. I have either 'thrown efforts back' to use the popular phrase here or I have not. But I have experienced a lot of confrontation by the forum members here not to mention some abusive private messages I have received. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Octavian10 Posted January 7, 2011 Author Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 Here is what the community legal advice team wrote to me: Thank you for taking the time to contact Community Legal Advice. To enable us to categorise you issue into the correct area of law we will require some further information from you. * What is the reason for the harassment? * How do you feel you have been harassed? * Have you sought any other legal advice about this issue? If you require any further help, please contact our helpline on 0845 345 4 345 where one of our operators will be happy to assist you. When you call please quote the following reference number .... This will be your case reference number for any future queries regarding this issue. Community Legal Advice (CLA) helps people tackle their legal problems through our: o email advice service o telephone helpline Our service offers high quality, specialist advice to those on a lower income or benefits and can help with the following issues: Ø Debt Ø Housing Ø Employment Ø Welfare Benefits and Tax Credits Ø Education Ø Family If we are unable to offer you free advice, we may be able to tell you about other ways you can get help. The Community Legal Advice service is open from 9:00am to 8:00pm Monday to Friday and 9:00am to 12:30pm on Saturdays. Calls to our helpline cost no more than 4p per minute from a BT landline but calls from mobiles are usually more. A callback service is also available on request and mobile users can text ‘Legal Aid’ and their name to 80010 and an operator will call them back. Alternatively, you can visit our webform where you can suggest a date and time for us to call you back. We have Welsh-speaking advisers and a translation service is available free of charge in 170 languages. The service can also be accessed by Minicom on 0845 609 6677 and through Type-Talk. We hope that you found the Community Legal Advice service useful. Best Wishes, Leah CLA Operator Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dani Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 unfortunatley i dont know what to say apart from what already has been. your oviously doing everything you can.keep at it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Octavian10 Posted January 7, 2011 Author Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 unfortunatley i dont know what to say apart from what already has been. your oviously doing everything you can.keep at it. Yes I am . But do you see the accusations which are being leveled at me? The problem with the email above is that the CLA is (very cleverly) trying to 'resolve' my issues on the telephone which is unfair and unprofessional. They should be answering by email instead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dani Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 due to some of your replies i can understand why some members are wary. i hope you get this matter resolved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Octavian10 Posted January 7, 2011 Author Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 i hope you get this matter resolved. The matter wont get resolved the way things are going. And my mental health problems will continue to worsen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aries20 Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 well see you GP if your MH probs are getting worse Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BimoUK Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 Yes I am . But do you see the accusations which are being leveled at me? The problem with the email above is that the CLA is (very cleverly) trying to 'resolve' my issues on the telephone which is unfair and unprofessional. They should be answering by email instead. 1) Not accusations - observations. 2)Yes, the CLA are trying to help you resolve your matter via telephone because it is the quickest, most eficient way for them to address your problems compared to e-mail. It is neither unfair, or unprofessional for them to try and help you in the quickest way, it is simply good sense. However, if you continue to contact them via e-mail they will respond in kind. How do I know? I've done it. It seems very strange to me that NONE of the previously mentioned organisations have been of ANY use at all. Have you considered the fact that maybe you are expecting more from them than they offer, or are simply being impatient with them as you have been with us? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Octavian10 Posted January 7, 2011 Author Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 However, if you continue to contact them via e-mail they will respond in kind. How do I know? I've done it. Well the CLA do not respond to my emails beyond that first email of pretending be shocked at the query and then asking for a telephone conversation. I am amazed at your claim that they continued their conversation with you on email. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanctuary Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 I got off to a hell of a bad start on this forum.... I hope you can see through all of this and for the want of hairsplitting, you are not 'claiming' anything here.... your world seems to be full of claims and allegations and accusations... all of this is adding to your already fragile state of mind... we are trying to help you.... perhaps it really would benefit to bullet point the major stressors, triggers and circumstances around you now, in this moment..... you will not agree with all replies but you really have to see past the intentions of people and know that pretty much all of us here wake up feeling overwhelmed with all the things happening in our lives, other days worse than others. I think getting it off your chest will help you. But it's an observation. You are fighting the wrong people here in my opinion although I can see how your private life has spilled over into your 'normal' communications with people who really have nothing to do with you and your life. Try not to take negative posts to heart and focus on breaking your problems into chunks. Perhaps make separate posts and deal with whatever is happening to you separately from this post. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Octavian10 Posted January 7, 2011 Author Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 I got off to a hell of a bad start on this forum.... I hope you can see through all of this and for the want of hairsplitting, you are not 'claiming' anything here.... your world seems to be full of claims and allegations and accusations... I have been physically assaulted twice in the recent past. I have yet to share the details of that assault on this forum. Both assaults were reported to the police and then to the IPCC. However, none of the institutions has paid any heed to me. all of this is adding to your already fragile state of mind... we are trying to help you.... perhaps it really would benefit to bullet point the major stressors, triggers and circumstances around you now, in this moment..... you will not agree with all replies but you really have to see past the intentions of people and know that pretty much all of us here wake up feeling overwhelmed with all the things happening in our lives, other days worse than others. Yes it is worsening my mental condition. And no if I was one to take offence I would have left the forum some time ago. I think getting it off your chest will help you. But it's an observation. You are fighting the wrong people here in my opinion although I can see how your private life has spilled over into your 'normal' communications with people who really have nothing to do with you and your life. I have no control over my life and have lost whatever distinctions I could have made between the public and private spheres. Try not to take negative posts to heart and focus on breaking your problems into chunks. Perhaps make separate posts and deal with whatever is happening to you separately from this post. Good luck. Ok the main disturbance in my life is the inaction of the police and the IPCC despite my reports of crime. However it is unfair when certain people claim to me what a pleasant experience they have had with the police/IPCC/CLA because I do not share their sentiments towards these institutions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Christine001 Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 Said I wouldnt come back but wanted to send a hug to you (((Octavian))) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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