My first post

[Chapster]

Hello everyone,

I’m a 40-year-old-man with a partner who we have found, after years of confusing and difficult behaviour in our relationship, and life problems which have affected us both heavily, is suffering from BPD. This has been a lot for us to take in, we are both struggling to cope in our different ways. We aren’t helping each other really (I have mental health problems, too), and currently we are floundering.

I’m hoping I might gain some useful information and insights from others on this forum, so that we can try to do each other less harm, and start on a path towards whatever better future is achievable.