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Abandonment is huge for me also.. Constantly consumes me with fear... But I find if I take a moment and make myself think lots " I am reacting this is bpd". That I can cope with the emotion better. I also tell people how and why I feel what I feel. Maybe I'd you partner knew what and why she could do more to eleviate your fears.? It sucks !!! But to be honest and talk helps :)

I am glad the links have been removed from the forum for twitter and fb cos I too was concerned about this.

Joshua, Thank you for removing the link sharing, I'm happy you did, - even if you are still debating it... best regards, kitteh xoxo

I sound like I am moaning but really just saying that it's so easy to have a full viewing possibility in iPhone or blackbury. I like the full web page not basic .. It's why people have them after all.

Ive a Nokia E63, currently awaiting a Blackberry, shall check out the Mobile version, cos I'd love to be able to get this when out and about.

When you use the forums go to the bottom left of the screen where it says ipb default and change to mobile version. Works great on my iphone.

If you don't like the iPhone version, don't use it. No one other than you so far has complained about it, actually a lot of people were commending the mobile version. Why should Joshua foot the bill for something entirely non-compulsory when he does so much for us already? beggars can't be choosers.

I used my iPod Touch to browse it and was perfectly satisfied with the mobile version, it's very good compared with some forums' mobile software.

I would like an iPhone friendly option these are very easy and would make using here quicker. The mobile friendly option is dated!! So please consider bringing it into the realms of 21st century like all the rest of the forum. iPhone users are millions of people.. I happen to be one! Bb x

I removed link sharing, I also agree that this really doesent seem the place for them. I may reconsider this but for now my initial thoughts are we can do without them.

love the mobile skin... will comment on the rest later... Ty josh xxx

Link Sharing Easily share links from your community to Facebook, Twitter, and more. Great way to drive traffic to your community! This i find worrying, as Piuma also said. yes i have used fb, but upon further thought and a little research i am extremely suspicious of facebook. Its owner, Mark Zuckerberg is in his 30's, and was offered 1bn dollars for it a while back. He refused to sell. I wonder why. -Maybe its the all the data - mining stats available from millions of ppl worldwide- slightly scary. A lot of members post quite personal stuff here. A lot of members do not want all and sundry reading their posts which they have written trusting they will be only shared with other forum members. maybe some ppl might be interested in this link about facebook - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aT322GiT5lw&feature=related Or this i found quite interesting as well : Report: Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg Doesn’t Believe In Privacy Read More http://www.wired.com/epicenter/2010/04/report-facebook-ceo-mark-zuckerberg-doesnt-believe-in-privacy/#ixzz0nIWtX8nr I would not post anything on facebook i didnt mind if the WHOLE WORLD knew about me. Advertisers, Government, my mother, my ex partner who i am in a custody case with. My ~(future)~ employer. Even those quizzes- "What kind of criminal are you"- etc- you know the type- are you really sure you want to share that info with the whole world. Mark Zucherberg does not believe in privacy- see links above. That worries me. I am very very suspicious of these buttons that have appeared on this site re: Twitter, FB, Digg, etc. I come here for support with some intensely private issues. If they were not so private to me, i'd post them on my facebook wall, using my full real name. My sons use facebook. My 2 ex partners who i do NOT want to share any info with by any means!!!, both use facebook. Can anybody make sence of the privacy settings on FB. If you can, fair play to you- no matter how long i tweaked with my priv. settings, I could not change some things from popping up - which i am not ready to share with my kids, ex, etc. After finding out these facts i was worried, and closed my fb account about 3 weeks ago. I normally do not venture into the city, but had no choice last week, and while waiting around for 2 hours to be recalled into family law court in the afternoon i had a coffee in an outdoor part of a cafe on a busy Street. By total coincidence, (i don't believe in 'coincidence, i believe in fate, or timely warnings...) I met a guy i was in school with , he used to be a landscape gardener, but with the boom economy he decided to do a Private investegator course, then became an apprentice to a PI. Yes, very James Bond. I was talking about tracing birthparents with him, but most work he does is about extra marital affairs, and spouses checking up on their exes pasts. As well as Companies checking up on potential or current employees. The co. he works for also investigate insurance fraud. I was facinated, especially when he said the net is his first port of call. With those games on fb, many ppl will friend you just so you will send them a "gift" regularly on farmville, vamp wars etc. This is called a 'social hack', there are also a few "industry hacks" on how to access ppls fb pages, status, friends, etc. He wouldnt elaborate as he had to go. But i was glad i'd spoken to him, In the past few months ive been deleting my fb acc, then re-opening it to talk with some of you guys. Needless to say, i will not be re-joining fb. And a fb logo below posts scares the shit out of me. "Being paranoid is simply knowing all the facts"- W. Burroughs. I think its very true. I am definitely going to be more conservative about posting personal information, or even views if there is a FB logo underneath! Take care and be safe, Kitteh. x

If I am honest with you, I got a bit of a headache when i just entered the forum to find all these changes. I dont do very well with change unexpected to last minute. but it looks good

glad i could help it is a new drug has very little to no side effects and is meant to be a new wonder drug from anyone i know on it hope ye can get it and it works for you

Don´t really like the idea of reputation points, Josh. To me as BPD it is too much like labeling - and maybe even discriminating. Its my personal problem, but certain flashbacks crashed down on me when I saw/read it.