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Jelly here are all the people that really like you and wub you . Don't be glum we are your chum (s) :D

I am very sorry but i just do not agree with the reputation system. I feel gutted. I have read and re-read and re-read the posts i have made. I cannot see the number in the corner were it tells me someone has voted negative one. I cannot see why in my posts i have been voted -1. Can someone please read all my posts and tell me what i have done. I am now back to neutral but i must have done something wrong. If i was an animal in the wild i would have died by natural selection. I am useless at everything even on a mental health forum which is where i am meant to be safe. I don't undserstand truly. Please help someone. I had a bad experience on friday yet again and my whole confidence is shaken i just need some help. Sorry again. i am sorry. I hope i don't annoy anyone with this post. OMG someone is going to hate this post. aaargh. This is so difficult i don't even know whether to post it now.

growwwwwwwwwwwwlllllllllllllll!!!!! pwooooooarrrrrrrr!!!!! omg aurora thank you sooooooo much hunnie lol and as for you young sassy i totally love you hunnie!!!!!!! don't ever forget that hunnie and a huge great ((((((((((((((((((huggles)))))))))))))))) and love to you all chipssss auroraaaaa sassyyyyyyyyyy snowmannnnnn!!!! xoxooxoxoxooxoxoxoxooxoxoxooxoox

I couldn't be more divided on this. I think everything in this whole fucking world is open to abuse.... but it seems there is still something 'missing' from your masterplan josh... perhaps you need some of your own insight yourself? Or maybe perspective... all I know is it hasn't been thought through very wisely... there ya go.. some reputation feedback without using the system... lol. Use it!

Another very strong shout for scrapping the scheme altogether. It's the job of the mods to detect and remove trolls and trollish behaviour. We are here to support eachother, not to police and castigate others.

Woof!!!! I mean, yeah Jelly, love ya babe LOL.... and WOOF James Marsters in da house! Perhaps I can dress up as Drusilla and we can roll play James????? :lol:

Jelly!!

I {> you too!!!!!! :rolleyes:

brilliant good morning 2 u 2 xxxxxxxxxxxx

HI, i think we have missunderstood eachother....shall we just forget it all and start a clean sheet ? take care x

This is my first go at writing something really. So thought I'd put it here. Don't know if it's really classes as a poem tho. Need You There I just need you in my life to care about me like you do I just don’t feel complete without you You hold me in your arms and make me feel so safe I need you to hold me tight and never let me go I hurt when you are hurting and never like to see you in pain But I know the end is near and don’t know what to do I can see you slipping away and that’s never going to change I want to hold you in my arms and never let you go Am I being self-fish for thinking How it will affect me when you’re gone? I know I’ll crash when it happens You won’t be there to save me as you have been before I need you to always be there I know that that’s just not possible for you to do I find it hard to see you this way Am powerless to stop it and it’ll take you away There are the images of you sitting in your chair So fragile and fighting all the way You can hardly walk and need support I don’t like seeing you in such a bad way I feel bad for thinking the things I do When I see you this way I wish we could swap places and you’ll be ok Need you to survive and you deserve it more You’ll never know how much I care Cos I just find it too hard to share I can never show how much you mean to me Please keep fighting cos I need you to be there

*jumps on the jelly bandwagon* snuggles and huggles hunni xxxxx

Cherry, Of course we can. I'd like that very much Seems tedious to squabble over nothing. I hope you have a good day today and Good Morning lol. Take care of yourself xxxxxxxxxxx

I am confident that the team I have embrace feedback and will not behave in a way you suggest.

I have never really understood what it even means? But lets say someone finds a Mod or a Supervisor to not be helpful in a certain situation and they give them negative points. can the mod or supervisor see who gave them these points and be nasty to them because of it or take it out on them in anyway? Can just a member see who has gave them a negative mark? First of all this is a Mental Health support site not a site where we get to vote on who we like and who we don't. I already have enough problems in the real world wondering who hates me and who doesn't? There are some members here that have bad days and what if alot of people get together and give them negative votes then what happens? Are they kicked off the site for a while? No one here is perfect,we all have bad days and good. In my opinion the only good that will come out of this is getting rid of Trolls who constantly cause trouble.

"At the end of the day, everyone has their problems, everyone has their reasons for coming here and if people really are SO upset about the running of the forums, then there's always the option of not signing in here anymore and finding other online support." That would be slightly hard if you have been coming here for over 2 years like me and have made many of friends and use this website everyday unlike you have only been here since this year.

Don't get this business, at all,seriously. Why do people have to give a 'mark' or score next to a comment? Have I missed something? Why can't folk just post positive comments or constructive feedback? If people are abusing this forum, surely there are other ways of bringing people to task, rather than giving them a 'negative point'?? This is a supportive forum for people with MH issues. If someone has a bad day and posts something that others see as negative, they may feel mortified later. Some of us can live without this reputation system, it makes no difference. However, others are genuinely upset and may be put off from coming here - surely thats more important than 'trying out' a system? We already have a system here of how people perceive us. Scoring people just seems a bit clinical. **fedup! jumps down off soapbox** xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx