jai Posted July 2, 2006 Report Share Posted July 2, 2006 ((((Abby)))))your welcome hon, happy you are going to get seen and let us know how are you doing with it...it can nt be easy but definately better than how the stress of worrying about it will affect you. Does stress trigger you more too? just a thought.love and hugs , you take care, ill be thinking of youjaix Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pip Posted July 2, 2006 Report Share Posted July 2, 2006 AbbyGlad you are feeling abit better.Sorry I fell asleep on youGood idea to go to somewhereget checked and speakI'm sure it will be anonymousJust stick by hubby til you get your therapistHope you are okPipx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kittencosy Posted July 2, 2006 Report Share Posted July 2, 2006 Abby im so sorry for wht you have been through. I have only just read your post. I know how difficult it is put you can get through this. Please make sure you have plenty of local support as well as all of us. Keep safe thinking of youkitten Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abbynormal Posted July 2, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 2, 2006 Thanks kitten. Still haven't gone to the clinic yet but I will. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pip Posted July 2, 2006 Report Share Posted July 2, 2006 Are you abit better Abby?I haven't taken any pills tonightPipx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abbynormal Posted July 2, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 2, 2006 yes...taking valium to calm myself. still have nt' heard from t. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pip Posted July 2, 2006 Report Share Posted July 2, 2006 Is tomorrow a holiday?4th July and all? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abbynormal Posted July 2, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 2, 2006 both monday and tuesday are. i am sure he is just out. i just always have this fear he is getting sick of me and my parts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pip Posted July 2, 2006 Report Share Posted July 2, 2006 No.He will get back to you as soon as he gets your message. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kittencosy Posted July 2, 2006 Report Share Posted July 2, 2006 have you got someone you can trust to go ith you for support. Keep going i know its hard but you are strong you can get through thiskitten Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pip Posted July 3, 2006 Report Share Posted July 3, 2006 AbbyIt is 1.30am here.I am going to sleepSpeak tomorrowPipsx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsung Posted July 3, 2006 Report Share Posted July 3, 2006 Abby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!sorry i have been away for a while.. i am so sorry this bastard did that to you.OkReport it. They will help you with everything at the police station.tell them about your illness. they should have a psych team who can help you.((((((((((((((((hun))))))))))))))))))how are you feeling today?i am crying with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abbynormal Posted July 3, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 3, 2006 Rach,Been hiding and crying. Too complicated to report. I'll just keep checking in. Thanks to all of you. I feeel so horrid and unloveable.Abby Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jai Posted July 3, 2006 Report Share Posted July 3, 2006 Abbyyou are not unloveable..the place you are in is telling you that, but it is nt so....we love you .....big hugs for youjaix Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tabitha Posted July 3, 2006 Report Share Posted July 3, 2006 abbey just letting you know so thinking of you. i wish i could do more , but we here when you are ready, please stay safe [all of you]. someone inside knows how to deal with this, because this is how we became. but there are people outside that want to support and help and just reach out at such an awful time. Maybe try keeping safe objects near you, things that all parts recognise as safe, and self soothe. Ask the abusive ones to leave you, don't let them have the power. i am sending big safe hug and my thoughts are with you Tabi and gang Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orangesoup Posted July 3, 2006 Report Share Posted July 3, 2006 (((((((((Abby)))))))) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faerielight Posted July 3, 2006 Report Share Posted July 3, 2006 (((((((abby))))))))) you must be so traumatised by what has happened to you ..I am so sorry you got hurt . am sorry to that i didnt see your post until today, else i would've replyed sooner. Am here to offer my support and be your friend .. take good care love and hugs ivy xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abbynormal Posted July 4, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 4, 2006 not coping...in and out...Thanks againAbby Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abbynormal Posted July 4, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 4, 2006 not coping...in and out...Thanks againAbby Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jai Posted July 4, 2006 Report Share Posted July 4, 2006 (((((Abby)))))How are you today?jaixDohim here and just read today...sorry Abby my brain is doing some funky stuff just now....good to see you posting....sorry you are not coping...we are listening honlovejaix Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spaghetti Posted July 4, 2006 Report Share Posted July 4, 2006 I have worked in the sexual health field for a few years now and remember going to a lecture on rape. You can still have forensic tests up to 7 days after the event, even if you have had a wash. The police are very sympathetic these days ( i am told) If you said no, you said no, and the forensic tests could prove that sex did take place - without your consent . I think you need to get some professional advice and your local GUM clinic at the district hospital will be able to help adn will probably see you straight away if you let them know what has happened - ask to speak to a Health Adviser - rather than speaking to a receptionist. They could give you some counselling and do some tests and help you through the police process - if you decided you, after speaking to them, that you wanted to go down that route. I would strongly urge you to get some help - if you want me to answer any specific questions about the service they offer at the GUM clinic - i would be very happy to do so - let me know if there is anything i can do to help you through this. love and hugs xxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tabitha Posted July 4, 2006 Report Share Posted July 4, 2006 abbey thinking of you still, know this must be awful, please be kind to yourselves and if there is anything i can do just post, you're in my thoughts luv n hugs Tabi n gang Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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