foreverborderline Posted August 23, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 Forever,i replied originally to the thread and felt very sorry that you are in so much pain right now.and i still am.It is really sad that you feel there is no hope for you.For me personally i believe there is always hope...if we dont have hope then what do we have? You see you believe you are right but what makes you right over everybody else? Everyone has their own beliefs. You don't feel you have insulted anyone bit from what i have read you have insulted joshua for one.You say just because he is a counseller it doesnt mean only he's opinnion counts?no it doesnt...but neither does only yours. you don't believe you can get better or anyone with bpd can recover...i and others disagree and some agree with you.There's nothing wrong with having different opinnions.I think yours and most peoples point has been made clearly. i hope one day things do get better for you and you find a way out of the darkness you in now.i wouldnt wish that feeling on anyone. Thanks Dani., hopefully one day I will have freedom from BPD like I hope all people will, but giving what I know of the disorder that seems unlikely. All people's opinions matter, I see the views of others, just wish they would see mine and validate them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AmyP Posted August 23, 2010 Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 my final comment on this sorry affair, you wanted attention you got it, you wanted drama you got it...this has in it's own little way answered all your hopes and prayers when you originally typed something very derogatory to the BPD world as a whole, you want to take whatever shit you like and write it off to BPD you do that, you want to tell yourself there's no cure for your actions you do that, end of the day we're not in your world and you're certainly not in mine, if you was in a support group with me I'd be telling the leader to ask you to leave, your negativity leeches off all the great work most of the other memebers do in not only dealing with their own BPD but supporting the rest of us.....we've all made our points you don't think it can be cured you got your 60 seconds of fame you do not want to listen to anyone else..you took what I said as aggressive it was as much truth as I could share about myself cos I've certainly been where you've been, do I want to admit defeat now? fuck no else I'd have killed myself on the numerous occasions I've threatened it...I'm here because despite being at the bottom of the well I now realise feeling around here there are others like me and maybe together we can all by helping and supporting each other climb out of the well to join the rest of the world.....you call it managing someone else calls it a cure does it really fucking matter...at the moment I'm right at the beginning of my journey will I fail sometimes? absolutely but I will pick myself up dust myself and keep trying cos if I don't I may as well kill myself I refuse to write myself off. Apologies to anyone else I offended Shawn *claps hands* bravo! well said Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foreverborderline Posted August 23, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 The fact that you cannot admit that I have valid points, maybe you cannot admit it because you truly feel you are cured, and you won't admit that there is no cure, if you truly knew the disorder or any personality disorder then you would know that there is no cure, only management of symptoms. You wish to push me into stating something that i dont believe. Your opinion is yours and one your entitled to but your not entitled to push this onto other people and belittle them when they disagree. Josh, I never belittled anyone, you belittle me and it is unfortunate that you do so. So, you truly believe there is a cure for BPD ? What is it then and why don't all people have access to this cure ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Data Posted August 23, 2010 Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 Thanks Dani., hopefully one day I will have freedom from BPD like I hope all people will Will you change your user name then? What are you going to call yourself? How about curedborderline :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shawnm339 Posted August 23, 2010 Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 wentovertheborderlinebuthavenowreturned maybe would be a good username? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foreverborderline Posted August 23, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 my final comment on this sorry affair, you wanted attention you got it, you wanted drama you got it...this has in it's own little way answered all your hopes and prayers when you originally typed something very derogatory to the BPD world as a whole, you want to take whatever shit you like and write it off to BPD you do that, you want to tell yourself there's no cure for your actions you do that, end of the day we're not in your world and you're certainly not in mine, if you was in a support group with me I'd be telling the leader to ask you to leave, your negativity leeches off all the great work most of the other memebers do in not only dealing with their own BPD but supporting the rest of us.....we've all made our points you don't think it can be cured you got your 60 seconds of fame you do not want to listen to anyone else..you took what I said as aggressive it was as much truth as I could share about myself cos I've certainly been where you've been, do I want to admit defeat now? fuck no else I'd have killed myself on the numerous occasions I've threatened it...I'm here because despite being at the bottom of the well I now realise feeling around here there are others like me and maybe together we can all by helping and supporting each other climb out of the well to join the rest of the world.....you call it managing someone else calls it a cure does it really fucking matter...at the moment I'm right at the beginning of my journey will I fail sometimes? absolutely but I will pick myself up dust myself and keep trying cos if I don't I may as well kill myself I refuse to write myself off. Apologies to anyone else I offended YOU are the one who should be attacked for coming at me like you do, but NOBODY says anything to you, I do not see Josh jumping down your throat, you call me names (against the rules) and get away with it, can everyone say favoritism ? I never wanted attention or drama or any of that, I wanted people to see how DANGEROUS it is to say there is a cure for something which EVERY doc that knows anything about this disorder knows there is not. You are 100% wrong about me and you sitting there and judging me is not cool. Who do you think you are ? If you EVER talked to me this way in person it would be a HUGE mistake, others have learned this the hard way Shawn. I am not gonna address everything you said here because it is all crap, you need help sir and I will pray for your soul. You for sure are not cured, not even close. I never insulted you until you came at me, whatever dude. You opinion means nothing because all you do is judge others when it is YOURSELF that you need to look at, if you can .. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR !!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Data Posted August 23, 2010 Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 If you EVER talked to me this way in person it would be a HUGE mistake, others have learned this the hard way Shawn. Is that a threat? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dani Posted August 23, 2010 Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 The fact that you cannot admit that I have valid points, maybe you cannot admit it because you truly feel you are cured, and you won't admit that there is no cure, if you truly knew the disorder or any personality disorder then you would know that there is no cure, only management of symptoms. You wish to push me into stating something that i dont believe. Your opinion is yours and one your entitled to but your not entitled to push this onto other people and belittle them when they disagree. Josh, I never belittled anyone, you belittle me and it is unfortunate that you do so. So, you truly believe there is a cure for BPD ? What is it then and why don't all people have access to this cure ? he has not belittled you?i see no evidence of that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foreverborderline Posted August 23, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 wentovertheborderlinebuthavenowreturned maybe would be a good username? See, more insults. I was just trying to have a debate and I get treated this way ?? You are laughable actually :lol: :lol: :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foreverborderline Posted August 23, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 The fact that you cannot admit that I have valid points, maybe you cannot admit it because you truly feel you are cured, and you won't admit that there is no cure, if you truly knew the disorder or any personality disorder then you would know that there is no cure, only management of symptoms. You wish to push me into stating something that i dont believe. Your opinion is yours and one your entitled to but your not entitled to push this onto other people and belittle them when they disagree. Josh, I never belittled anyone, you belittle me and it is unfortunate that you do so. So, you truly believe there is a cure for BPD ? What is it then and why don't all people have access to this cure ? he has not belittled you?i see no evidence of that. Of course you don't Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dani Posted August 23, 2010 Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 The fact that you cannot admit that I have valid points, maybe you cannot admit it because you truly feel you are cured, and you won't admit that there is no cure, if you truly knew the disorder or any personality disorder then you would know that there is no cure, only management of symptoms. You wish to push me into stating something that i dont believe. Your opinion is yours and one your entitled to but your not entitled to push this onto other people and belittle them when they disagree. Josh, I never belittled anyone, you belittle me and it is unfortunate that you do so. So, you truly believe there is a cure for BPD ? What is it then and why don't all people have access to this cure ? he has not belittled you?i see no evidence of that. Of course you don't no i don't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foreverborderline Posted August 23, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 If you EVER talked to me this way in person it would be a HUGE mistake, others have learned this the hard way Shawn. Is that a threat? No, of course not. Just stating a fact, that people who talk to me this way in public get yelled at in a very unfriendly manner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Narcissa Posted August 23, 2010 Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 "fire!" "where?" "it's alright, i'm just demonstrating the misuse of free speech" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foreverborderline Posted August 23, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 Thanks Dani., hopefully one day I will have freedom from BPD like I hope all people will Will you change your user name then? What are you going to call yourself? How about curedborderline Oh so now it is funny to make fun of me huh ? Is this a mental health board cause I thought there was supposed to be compassion and not attacks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dani Posted August 23, 2010 Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 Thanks Dani., hopefully one day I will have freedom from BPD like I hope all people will Will you change your user name then? What are you going to call yourself? How about curedborderline Oh so now it is funny to make fun of me huh ? Is this a mental health board cause I thought there was supposed to be compassion and not attacks. i think it was meant in a light hearted way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aurorablues Posted August 23, 2010 Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 *Facepalm* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foreverborderline Posted August 23, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 Thanks Dani., hopefully one day I will have freedom from BPD like I hope all people will Will you change your user name then? What are you going to call yourself? How about curedborderline Oh so now it is funny to make fun of me huh ? Is this a mental health board cause I thought there was supposed to be compassion and not attacks. i think it was meant in a light hearted way. I am sure it was. :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Data Posted August 23, 2010 Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 "fire!" "where?" "it's alright, i'm just demonstrating the misuse of free speech" Yes, I agree. A bit like my cinema/bomb example earlier in this topic. Oh so now it is funny to make fun of me huh ? Is this a mental health board cause I thought there was supposed to be compassion and not attacks. I am just making a joke thats all. It was not an attack. Naively I thought it might defuse the situation and calm people down. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Corpsewithpulse Posted August 23, 2010 Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 *Facepalm* Yep Incidentally, hear Eduard Khil is making a comeback. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Data Posted August 23, 2010 Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 Someone's heading for a banning........... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foreverborderline Posted August 23, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 Someone's heading for a banning........... Well duh, that is the intent on my part, the more people I alienate the easier it will be to leave the world. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedMan Posted August 23, 2010 Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 not trying to change anyone's mind but just get them to see the truth. Re-read that to yourself. You say BPD can't be cured and you believe that. There are people who believe BPD can be cured and they believe that. You are trying to convince those people they are wrong as you know The Truth, sounds like trying to change peoples minds to me. Even mental health specialists can't agree on whether BPD is curable or not so it falls down to personal belief. Calling someone a bullshitter as you did in your opening post, so you threw the first insult, will spark angry responses. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedMan Posted August 23, 2010 Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 Well duh, that is the intent on my part, the more people I alienate the easier it will be to leave the world. Funny how it's always someone elses fault isn't it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joshua Posted August 23, 2010 Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 Again you threaten what you did previously, something which was outlines to you as completely wrong. No, of course not. Just stating a fact, that people who talk to me this way in public get yelled at in a very unfriendly manner. I see little difference to this and what you have done here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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