Lauren Posted June 6, 2005 Report Share Posted June 6, 2005 :P claire. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lauren Posted June 6, 2005 Report Share Posted June 6, 2005 I am not sure either. Think we are both just going on personal feelings. Proberly not the best way of doing things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyMacbeth Posted June 6, 2005 Report Share Posted June 6, 2005 Anger? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lauren Posted June 6, 2005 Report Share Posted June 6, 2005 No, Im not angry with you. Are you with me? I feel hurt by you yes, angry no not really if at all only on a surface level. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyMacbeth Posted June 6, 2005 Report Share Posted June 6, 2005 Lets discuss this in a pm. Just need to get my thoughts together. I am not angry at you. I would like to clear this up because I do not want you to feel hurt by me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lauren Posted June 6, 2005 Report Share Posted June 6, 2005 Have got to go out to collect my son. Just didnt want you to think that I am ignoring you. Not sure when I will be back though. Later today I hope. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lauren Posted June 6, 2005 Report Share Posted June 6, 2005 why do all my posts keep sending twice? Sure we can take this to PM. though see above if I dont respond for a bit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostsoul Posted June 6, 2005 Author Report Share Posted June 6, 2005 :rolleyes: oh you two. you could be sisters. i bet you're both cringing at the thought lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyMacbeth Posted June 6, 2005 Report Share Posted June 6, 2005 No not really cringing. :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katherine Posted June 6, 2005 Report Share Posted June 6, 2005 everyone's different different things work for different people why else would there be different types of therapy and different therapists wouldn't life be boring if we were all the same we all have different personalities, over and above the BPD or whatever In Overcoming Anxiety for Dummies (honest, I bought it!!!) it gives different ways of approaching things as to whether you are a thinking, feeling, whatever person... Nature or nurture? Or whether one's nature is properly nurtured? If the mother is stressed or undergoes a traumatic experience while pregnant I agree that the fetus could very well be affected by the experience. So yes you make perfect sense and explained it very well. Same with premature babies seperated from their mother's at birth can cause later in life seperation anxiety. Kari-would be able to explain this well would anyone like me to explain this? Its about emotional dys-regulation.. I need to check out my notes and reflections at home first, but I can explain. Also, my parents were largely emotionally absent from me throughout my childhood. As for nature, well, both my parents are ?depressed/BPD/Narcissistic?, which I would both inherit and be consumed by as a child. My mother's mother I gather had some kind of ?anxiety disorder, and some distant relative on my father's side was 'mad' apparantly. YET ALSO my Grandfather was the most gentle and loving person, and was a nurse in an asylum in Epsom, as well as being a gardener. My opinion? BOTH nature and nurture, at least for me. Its the whole 'family constellation' as it were.... That's my stuff for the day, my inner child is off to play... Katie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostsoul Posted June 6, 2005 Author Report Share Posted June 6, 2005 have fun kari and thanks!!! x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katherine Posted June 6, 2005 Report Share Posted June 6, 2005 :) (if u count buying "The complete guide to mental health for women" in Boooks Etc as playful fun lol!!! and shopping in Sainsbury's ) (((((((hugs))))))) Katie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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