dolphin Posted June 25, 2006 Report Share Posted June 25, 2006 ive noticed that when i cant keep my depression under control for some reason i get fisious towards my bf he had not noticed it until i mentioned it last night i start biting, pinching and digging my nails in him although i dont actually notice at the time i realize a day or two after i have come out of the depression i have also realize i actualy do it on purpose to hurt himwhy?can anyone help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pip Posted June 25, 2006 Report Share Posted June 25, 2006 I don't have anyone to pinch!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Maybe you want him to feel your pain?-wot a crap answer!-A T would say that!Sorry, am in hopeless modePipx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gobbothegoblin Posted June 25, 2006 Report Share Posted June 25, 2006 I get like that , i hit out (not litterally.. verbally) at everyone around me when i get depressed. Its suprising half my friends stick with me and talk it over with me. but yea .. i become a right tw't in those sort of times. -[dave]- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dolphin Posted June 25, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 25, 2006 ty dave i really thought i was mad and i was the only one thank you thank you thank you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gobbothegoblin Posted June 25, 2006 Report Share Posted June 25, 2006 its ok i thought the same, and its not as bad as you think, now my friends have pointed out i do it i start to notice it more and just can tell when im getting worked up, and i slowly wind myself down. Also it helps when the people your around most when depressed are aware your like it so they dont take offence. can i ask how your bf reacted??(((( dolphin ))))-[dave]- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dolphin Posted June 25, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 25, 2006 he never noticed it until i mentioned it to him last night because we play fight alot i suppose he would not notice it but he said he did not care as he always comes off worse anyway :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gobbothegoblin Posted June 25, 2006 Report Share Posted June 25, 2006 lol well as long as u dont feel alone about it . always here to talk btw my ex didnt mind either.... she was always the bully one anyway so i dont think she noticed.-[dave]- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dolphin Posted June 25, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 25, 2006 its great to know im not alone i was really worried about posting it incase people though i was nuts and not talk to me again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gobbothegoblin Posted June 25, 2006 Report Share Posted June 25, 2006 nono of corse not, hey if they think im sane.. they will think anyones sane. Post what you like , im totally weird myself so theres a good chance someones going thro the same thing (((dolphin))) hugs rock!-[dave]- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
realscape Posted June 25, 2006 Report Share Posted June 25, 2006 Hi DolphinYuh I did indeed get testy and angry and viscious towards my expartners and exflatmates in the past. Now I live alone and don't have relationships but I have noticed that there are certain things that I start to do when I'm building up to depression. For example, I start to get EXTREMELY pissed off with my cat and feel like kicking or throwing him. Because of the abnormality of that, I know that I'm building up to feeling ill and I never act on it, I use it as a warning sign. If he was a person, it wouldn't be so easy to identify the abnormality of it, but because he is a tiny creature and can't speak and cannot possibly have done anything wrong then I know its my problem. If I had a partner I wouldn't so easily notice that it might be my feeling and not something they did or said. I would probably spoil for a fight on the basis that they must have said or did something to make me feel crap. And indeed I have done that in the past millions of times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jai Posted June 26, 2006 Report Share Posted June 26, 2006 hey dolphinYES........real grumpy and mean....what can i say, im like spaghetti in a whirlwind !!!no fun is it hon?xxxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gobbothegoblin Posted June 26, 2006 Report Share Posted June 26, 2006 whirlwind...spaghetti.. very visual -[dave]- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dolphin Posted June 26, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 26, 2006 thank you everyone this has made me happy just to know it affects quite a few of us and its not just me i have now just got to figure out how to know when it is happening so i can put a stop to it if that is possiblethank you :grouphug[1]: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gobbothegoblin Posted June 26, 2006 Report Share Posted June 26, 2006 Good luck, here if u need some advice ((((dolphin))))))-dave- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dolphin Posted June 26, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 26, 2006 thanx smurf :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gobbothegoblin Posted June 26, 2006 Report Share Posted June 26, 2006 hehe :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jai Posted June 26, 2006 Report Share Posted June 26, 2006 Dolphin if you figure it out let me know...i m being not too nice to live with just now...jai Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gobbothegoblin Posted June 26, 2006 Report Share Posted June 26, 2006 Tell meeee as well -dave- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dolphin Posted June 26, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 26, 2006 ok just give me awhile i dont know how long it could even be a year but i hope not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gobbothegoblin Posted June 26, 2006 Report Share Posted June 26, 2006 il be with u all the way -dave-wait.. is that a good thing:S Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsung Posted June 29, 2006 Report Share Posted June 29, 2006 i start pushing people closest to me away.:( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dolphin Posted June 30, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 30, 2006 its weird that even though after we have done it we know there is a problem with it and yet we cant rectify the problem when it is happening Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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