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Hi

Not good at talking and feel really selfish about just saying hi, but just wanted to know how this site works really. :(

I'm 34, gay, single since the jurassic age and having a crisis about being 35 soon, and then 40 about five minutes after.

I want to scream, cos I just wanna be normal and have lots of good friends and a nice boyf. However, would settle for just not hating myself and my life for a day or two in a row ;) (and maybe a giggle or two........am so sad, a great girl who I worked with has just left, and I'm so bad at keeping in touch, I just don't think it'll happen, boo hoo. All that better to have loved and lost stuff really is bollocks!)

I'm not only a mentalist, I like politics, trashy TV, bitching and also am a dedicated alkie, dope head and quite like not eating - it saves so much money.

Anyway, enough from me, all this typing is interrupting my smoking and drinking!

Cheers, Dx

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Hi Dan,

Welcome to the site

I hope you find support and comfort her.

Don't worry about writing and taking up space

- that is what it is here for

So post!!!!!!!!!

Looking forward to reading them

pip

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Hi Dan and welcome, i know how hard it can be fighting that battle of not liking yourself and keeping in touch with people when you have no get up an go. You have come to the right place here for some support, you will soon find your way around, but if you have any problems just shout and someone will help you out.

Look forward to getting to know you.

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Thanks guys, I feel a bit better already. I think I've given a hug to a virtual stranger (Pip). I think i quite like online hugs as I don't have to worry about flinching or feeling uncomfortable :) Sorry to hear some of you feel so bad at the mo, me and kitten Scooby send you a kiss and Scoobs also walks on your head in an annoying but cute way.... :P

I'm gonna read the paper now for some distraction, but will still be online if wants to chat to a mad old bat!

Dx

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Nice to know you Dan, I'm depressed too, I can assure you life gets into 'second gear' at 51, you have a kitten too, keep telling us his/her latest news won't you, perhaps I'll get pets when I'm old ...

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Hi and welcome, i hope you find support and acceptance here and that you begin to understand things a bit more. We are a pretty friendly bunch really

Welcome aboard

Hugs

Innermuddle

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[Hi dude!

Almost exactly like u, except i'm not gay!!!

Welcome to the site!!

Spliffy]

Yeah I know. Neither of us have a boyfriend.

I am already upset that you're gonna reject me by refusing to let me ride your combine harvester. ;)

Oh well, i least i get to stay away from your lively pussies. They sound like they're related to Tony Martin to me, but with better guns and an ability to see in the dark.

Am scared of Norwich anyway........not just gay ya know, braaan too. I'd get linched if i was a regular visitor :P Luckily can't get in - that windy, single lane road that lets you into to Norwich is specially designed to keep pooftas with no spatial abilties well off your land.

Be good, but if you can't be good, be your funny self.

Take care

Dxx

PS I'm a metrosexual darling, even if you hate me kissing you, tough! I kiss all my friends, haha.

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I actually tried to make a solemn and binding pack with some friends. 3 of us are turning 35 soon, one 30. I said lets all knock off 2 years, as long as we stuck to it, we could refer to being at school / uni together with consistency. I had the PERFECT solution. But no-one would play. No one understood! I think i also have cultural issues - am half Mauritian, and no-one i've ever met from there tells their true age. My dad's partner hasn't even offered a lie - she refuses point blank to tell me how old she is. Don't even know if my dad knows!

Ho hum.

I left the country for my 30th, had just been sacked (and paid off) so spent it on going away for a month.

Can't do that now! Will have to buy Valium on internet instead. And, Jesus, it's Christmas soon. Gotta start fretting about that too! I so have to start playing the lottery - then i can jet away for the whole damn festive thing with a handsome young escort.................sigh!

Hope you're OK. Thanks for thinking of me. You still playing Baywatch at your parents'?

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Thankfully, we are home now.

My dad got out of hospital

- so we had to leg it, thank goodness.

I have slobbed and slept all day.

WE are happy to be back

- dad is still alive

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Hi there, Dan, :welcomeani: to the family, here! Whoa--I surely understand, about the 'age' thing. I'm much 'older' than most here, but it's interesting to note that 'chronological age' doesn't necessarily correspond to how old we look, or how old we feel inside. Not to mention, how we behave outwardly, either. And you'll get support here from folks of all ages.

Hehe--have you ever wondered, if being gay is how come we look younger than we are supposed to be? (Yes, Lesbian for sure, although nobody around where I live knows it. Just, nobody asks, so...?) Or would looking younger be, on account of being 'a little bit crazy'?

Enjoy yourself; I found that it takes awhile to get used to all the vast forums and such. Maybe I HAVE been here since early July, but I STILL don't know my way around much of it and have plenty yet to learn! May you fare better; I bet that you'll do just fine!

allpsychedout

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Hi there, Dan, :welcomeani: to the family, here! Whoa--I surely understand, about the 'age' thing. I'm much 'older' than most here, but it's interesting to note that 'chronological age' doesn't necessarily correspond to how old we look, or how old we feel inside. Not to mention, how we behave outwardly, either. And you'll get support here from folks of all ages.

Hehe--have you ever wondered, if being gay is how come we look younger than we are supposed to be? (Yes, Lesbian for sure, although nobody around where I live knows it. Just, nobody asks, so...?) Or would looking younger be, on account of being 'a little bit crazy'?

Enjoy yourself; I found that it takes awhile to get used to all the vast forums and such. Maybe I HAVE been here since early July, but I STILL don't know my way around much of it and have plenty yet to learn! May you fare better; I bet that you'll do just fine!

allpsychedout

Thanks allpsychedout

The gay thing is rubbish, i personally know people my age who look like right haggard old queens! (must give up bitching and start being a Buddhist)

And inside, i'm so bitter and twisted and, on many occassions, so emotionally exhausted, I feel like i'm 90.

Luckily, i recently found my silly childish side through a colleague at work (who's now left, boo hoo) and found out I do a good impression of a scary chimpanzee. I'm sure many BPD's could make good actors, I'm sure if it weren't for the fact that i is black, i could easily play Hitler in his last days. And I 'd only have to think back to someone doing something completely unforgiveable like, em, changing the pub to meet up in with only one hour's notice........ B)

See ya

Dxx

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