Daisy Posted January 3, 2005 Report Share Posted January 3, 2005 Such a bpd trait im aware but im depseratly paranoid that people are leaving places, chat, shops, forums, work anthing becuase of ME> it FEELS TO ME that when i come in someowere people leave why do they hate me so much :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyMacbeth Posted January 3, 2005 Report Share Posted January 3, 2005 I feel the same exact way as you do Daisy. Thats us thinking irrationally, rationally most people are not avoiding us or hate us.But, if they do well f-em! :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tracey Posted January 3, 2005 Report Share Posted January 3, 2005 hey daisy, lady I dont hate you but i know where your coming from! it's so unnerving when you enter a room and people leave almost straight away without saying bye! i've made a joke of it in the past when it's happened to me!! guess it's laugh or cry!!!! but it makes so many of us paranoid! please can we have some etiquette in the chat room ect. it only takes a second to say bye!! Please Traceyxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lauren Posted January 3, 2005 Report Share Posted January 3, 2005 Yuck, Im guilty of that today. my net server kept closing on me. So sorry if I made any one paranoid. xxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyMacbeth Posted January 3, 2005 Report Share Posted January 3, 2005 Not me...I know you are not like that!!! :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostsoul Posted January 3, 2005 Report Share Posted January 3, 2005 i think we get paranoid because we are projecting what we feel about ourselves onto others if we do not like ourselves, we expect others not to either if we think they do not like us then we expect them to leave, avoid us or be cold etc thats how i rationalise it anyway, no that it actually kills the paranoia though! nuts Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginny Posted January 3, 2005 Report Share Posted January 3, 2005 me thinks lostsoul has a point...... the feelings are there but we have to try and rationalise - keep the faith Ginny ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyMacbeth Posted January 3, 2005 Report Share Posted January 3, 2005 yeah but sometimes thats really not the case...me thinks it can be intentional. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyMacbeth Posted January 3, 2005 Report Share Posted January 3, 2005 esp. when you catch peeps talking about you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pinklady66 Posted January 11, 2005 Report Share Posted January 11, 2005 That feeling is a borderline way of thinking. Sucks doesn't it? I have those kinds of feelings too and at times they are so out of control. I want you to know that you are not alone. Nobody hates you. Usually the loathing is the self loathing. Those that you think that hate you most likely hate themselves. Try to stay on top of the self punishment and don't let it get the best of you. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doctor Dysphoria Posted January 12, 2005 Report Share Posted January 12, 2005 Such a bpd trait im aware but im depseratly paranoid that people are leaving places, chat, shops, forums, work anthing becuase of ME> it FEELS TO ME that when i come in someowere people leave why do they hate me so much <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I never knew that was a bpd thing. I get really paranoid when people don't respond to my posts like oh sh*t they really hate me or when i reply to a thread on a newsgroup and it's the last one and i am thinking 'Here we go again !!' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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