I Hate People

[Dianna]

:angry:

I'm not sure if this is the place to put this message but I am so frustrated with my life that I feel like "going postal." If you are offended by strong language don't read this.

My husband's mother died on Wednesday. She treated him like a piece of shit all his life and his whole family has done the same, taking advantage of him whenever possible. He is the designated scapegoat for the family. For example, in 2001 he got a loan and paid $2,500 for his dad's funeral because he felt a sense of obligation. His sisters and mom said they would help but he got reimbursed exactly $120.00 (one hundred and twenty dollars).

Shortly after my husband spent $2,500 on his dad's funeral, his mom mailed his sister $200 which was to be used to pay back the loan. His mom mailed it to his sister because she didn't think he would pay back the loan he had taken out. (This would be funny if it wasn't true.) Anyway, his sister and brother-in-law took the money to the boats (casinos). A few months later my husband finally collected from his sister $120.00 of the $2,500 he spent, and never got a dime more.

Now that his mom has died I am terrified that my husband is going to once again cave in to his family and shell out more money that we don't have for a funeral for this woman who hated me from the moment she heard of me and never had anything good to say about me or him.

I feel like a heartless bitch because I can't even think about the supposed grief of the family because I am so caught up over this money issue. But if the truth be known I want to have a party now that she is dead and I want to tell everyone in the family "good riddance" to her, the f***ing B****

To top it all off his sister (the one who took his money to the boat instead of paying him back for his dad's funeral....and oh there is much more but I will not go into detail...) is the executor and sole beneficiary (not that there is anything to get, nor do I even want any money if there was any...we have managed without and will continue to make due). We found out that his mom called my husband and his other sisters and their mates (except for the one who she made executor) a bunch of vultures and thinks his sister is the only one who can take care of anything.

well anyway, I don't know why but I feel better posting this.

Have a nice day.

[paddypotty]

I think its much better to post it here than walk around with all that anger eating at you.

As for families especially in laws,they take a lot of bloody hard work and even then it rarely works out,I wont say what I think of my mother in law because Ill get kicked off the site,my hubby knows my thoughts and I guess thta enough for now.

Good luck

[mitchy]

you are justified in how you feel. your husband's family are clearly taking advantage of him. just because someone's died doesn't alter their character. his sister should pay this time.

why don't you write a letter to your late mum-in-law and tell her everything? you can destroy it afterwards. it might make you feel better for venting it out. don't feel bad about how you feel about her just cos she's dead.

i hope your husband doesn't get walked all over again. good luck.