Todash Posted February 26, 2008 Report Share Posted February 26, 2008 Achievement #1 - I took my daughter to play group today. Big deal huh, well here is some history..We previously belonged to another play group. Around Christmas time we had planned a party and gift exchanges for the kids. Well, that was the same time as my oldest having some serious issues that were destroying me emotionally. So, the day before the party, I canceled. I felt horrible for doing it, but I just wasnt strong enough to go. I figured the gift for my daughter could go to the child we would be bringing a gift for. Well, the organizer of the play group was rude and horrible towards me, so I unjoined the group. Well, since Im feeling better I wanted to get back in a group. So I joined a new group. Guess who is in it? Yep, the organizer from the previous group (apparently they disbanded.) and about 5 other people from the group. I have no idea what they had been told about me. So, you see, it was very stressful for me to go. But I did! And it was nice. It was me and one other mom and her daughter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paris Posted February 26, 2008 Report Share Posted February 26, 2008 Well done Todash!!I know how hard this was for you to go and Im proud of you for doing it!! Well done!! And even better you actually enjoyed it! Cool! Lou xxHey Im looking forward to seeing more acheivements from you :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shellybelly Posted February 26, 2008 Report Share Posted February 26, 2008 yipppee tod you posted achievment did all my harping on at you in chat finally get to you only messin well done on posting though now to the point of the post well done on doing that i know you were stressed out about it and hey thats a huge achievement going there staying there and havin fun are you sure thats not 3 achievements.. ah no tod seriously congrats on doing that and you did brill to do it.. im proud of youhugs ya mickeyps i want more achievment in here from youor ill kick your butt :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Todash Posted February 26, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 26, 2008 Achievement #2 - I woke up in a good mood.Achievement #3 - I went and looked at paving stones with hubby and didnt bite his head off once.# 4 is happening later this afternoon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shellybelly Posted February 26, 2008 Report Share Posted February 26, 2008 Hey todwow once you start on these achievements you flying through themwell done very proud of you..but your cheating im nosy i wanna know what number 4 achievement is going to be lol only messing tod congrats on all the achievement and waking up in good mood you mite share how you managed that one with the rest of us well donehugs ya mickey Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paris Posted February 26, 2008 Report Share Posted February 26, 2008 Tod,Well Done!! You are doing good!! So whats no 4 Lou Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rachel_31_uk Posted February 26, 2008 Report Share Posted February 26, 2008 hmmm mmmmmmmmm :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Todash Posted February 26, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 26, 2008 Anticipation is making me wait. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Todash Posted February 27, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 27, 2008 #4 - Stop by the art store and picked up some paint to finish a painting and to do another one, but that would be another achievement. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paris Posted February 27, 2008 Report Share Posted February 27, 2008 Go Todash!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shellybelly Posted February 27, 2008 Report Share Posted February 27, 2008 cool couldnt wait to find out the mystery behind the forth one well done hope you have fun painting.. hugs yamickey Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tripper Posted February 27, 2008 Report Share Posted February 27, 2008 Hey Tod will achievement #5 be posting a pic of the painting in your gallery? I'd personally love to see it! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Todash Posted February 28, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 Ok....#5 - Driving to DBT today I didnt have one single urge to drive off the road. I was actually looking forward to going. I even shared my homework. I couldnt believe how much they were impressed with me doing. I had a hard time fighting of the negative of saying things like it really was no big deal, or im not really that good.#6 - Went to my regular therapy next. I made a point to be an adult and not a child. I made a point of looking him in the eyes when talking to him and was able to talk about my anger issues abit.So, I had a pretty good day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndyL Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 Excellent! You're sounding so much stronger than you did even a few days ago. Yay!Andy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Todash Posted February 29, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 29, 2008 Ok I know this is going to sound weird. but for me it is a big achievement. #7 - Last night with my husband, I was able to stay totally present with him the whole time during sex. It was very, um, satisfying. Put me in the space of wanting to turn him on. Which I did a iong with a few others. LMAO It has made me feel very positive about myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paris Posted February 29, 2008 Report Share Posted February 29, 2008 Ok I know this is going to sound weird. but for me it is a big achievement. #7 - Last night with my husband, I was able to stay totally present with him the whole time during sex. It was very, um, satisfying. Put me in the space of wanting to turn him on. Which I did a iong with a few others. LMAO It has made me feel very positive about myself.Well done todash- well yeah well done!!Good achievements Im proud of you!!Im so pleased you feel positive right now, You should doLou xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shellybelly Posted February 29, 2008 Report Share Posted February 29, 2008 hey todwell done and congrats on reaching 7 achivements and becoming part of the achievment group with me yayyyyy for usyou have done so well doing all these achievment and you seen them all alone with no help which is excellent and now you reach 7 which was the goal so ts another achievment for you congrats and well doneMASSIVE HUGS FOR DOING BRILLmickey Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rael Posted March 1, 2008 Report Share Posted March 1, 2008 well done those are great achievements im so proud of you it must have been really difficult and i know how hrd it can be to see them as achievements too so well done.all the bestdonnaxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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