Betsy Posted February 18, 2005 Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 depressed dont know what to say anxiety mixed in what the heck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lauren Posted February 18, 2005 Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 ((((bets))))) no idea why huh? im feeling much the same today. you all set for the weekend? xxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janey Posted February 18, 2005 Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 (((((((((((BETSY)))))))))))) Thinking about you, and I hope you feel better soon... it's a horrible place to be, but it will go... the fog will lift and the sun will filter through to you again - trust in and hold on to that thought. Janey xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
verbena Posted February 18, 2005 Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 Does it just fall onto you Bets, or is there something wanting to be worked out/on? Try to think how nice it'll be to meet all the people you've been corresponding with. Think how fun it will be watching Joshua sing at the party. Think of being on vacation and the food (I'm being generous to English food). Are you packed? Did you get new jammies? New underwear for traveling? Are you bringing a book? My t recomended "Valley of the Horses". Let it go through you Bets. Be depressed, but let it go through. Don't hold onto it any longer than you need to. XXX XXX XXX Ann Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tracey Posted February 18, 2005 Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 (((((((((((Bets)))))))))) hang in there gal! your doing so much at the moment guess your pretty worked up about traveling over here!!! i know i would be!! strange people us brits!!! you will feel better once you get here and find your bearings and as for josh singing!!!!!! that's enough to depress anyone!!! take care hun! and have a good flight over see you very soon Traceyxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wisdom Posted February 18, 2005 Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 I have confidence you will get thru this depression. If we can stand by one another it'll be that much easier to recover. Remember your never alone. No matter how hopeless and helpless you feel you will move through this and come out on the other side. Buddha said in order for us to end suffering we must go thru the suffering (not a quote). Meaning that we have to go thru it rather than trying to push it away and denying its not there. Pushing it away only prolongs the suffering.......then it won't ever end. Bets I know you can get thru this. Keep focused on the moment and not project out too far. Its way too overwhelming. Stay in the moment or today in as much as you can. Hear the birds, feel the sun, breath the crisp air, feel your heart beat, listen to your breaths. That will help you/anyone who practices this regardless of depression, anger, impulive, suicidal, self injurous, or what ever................. Mindfulness clearly helps. We gotta get thru it rather than get trapped..... "Observe & Describe" M Linehan Wisdom Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
verbena Posted February 18, 2005 Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 Bets, Harold and Maude was soooo strange to me. Was it the Porshe you liked, or the music? Or (my favorite) was it the sex with the old woman? Sing Out, Bets! If you wanna sing out, sing out! XXX Ann Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyMacbeth Posted February 18, 2005 Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 ((((((((((((((Betsy))))))))))) Thinking of you! I hope you will feel better soon. Love ya', Em Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frog Posted February 18, 2005 Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 Hi Bets, Sending hugs Hun, be good to yourself we are here for u Big warm Hugs froggie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Betsy Posted February 18, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 thx guys .. sure it will pass..waiting i appreciate all you for responding bets Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tracey Posted February 18, 2005 Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 (((((Bets))))) just keep thinking of your new pet!!!! yep i'm gonna bring you a live haggis!!! so what are you gonna call it? most of the captive ones up here are called either Jock or Hamish!!! Take Care!!! Traceyxxx :wub: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lauren Posted February 18, 2005 Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 weeeeeeee jock :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katherine Posted February 18, 2005 Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 erg, a live haggis, what's one of them?????!!!! ((((((((((((Betsy)))))))))))) Wave to me as you fly over London, eh! (actually, its unlikely you'll fly over London.... ) karie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tracey Posted February 18, 2005 Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 Karie a haggis is a wee animal which is native to scotland!! Traceyxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Betsy Posted February 18, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 Karie I will wave to you when i am in london... not from the london eye as i am afraid of heights Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katherine Posted February 18, 2005 Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 oooo you ARE coming to London!!!!!!! wave in the direction of the north end of the Bakerloo Line!!!!!! Don't worry, I've never been up the London Eye either! Have a good time....will miss you and all the others but I'll still be here and posting! And going to work and therapy. Take care... k. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flippy Posted February 18, 2005 Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 Hey bets, i hope things are better, i hope you have a good flight and if you get into any difficulties this end just let me know. i will be with you all the way (((betsy))) flippy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktodee_27 Posted February 19, 2005 Report Share Posted February 19, 2005 (((((((((Bets)))))))))))) Just hang in there and let it pass- it sux, but that's about all I have to do when the depression gets to me like it does. I know the feeling- it's the pits. It's great when we get those moments when we are out of the pits and that will come again eventually. Hang tight girl. Luvs ya and I wish you well on your trip to the conference! Have fun! (One of these years when I am back on the outs, i should get to a conference I hope. Would love to meet all of you eventually in person and go to a bpd event. No way could I fly to london now- my county would sh*t their pants if I asked such a question to begin with! ) Have fun for me since I can't be there! xxKatie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Betsy Posted February 19, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 19, 2005 where are you KT? I thot u were in uk? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktodee_27 Posted February 19, 2005 Report Share Posted February 19, 2005 I'm in Wisconsin, USA bets Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Betsy Posted February 19, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 19, 2005 lol... i aways screw that up dont i! maybe you type with a brits accent. hehhehehehe bets Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktodee_27 Posted February 19, 2005 Report Share Posted February 19, 2005 lol maybe since ive picked up some of the british posting lingo already. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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