walker Posted April 9, 2009 Report Share Posted April 9, 2009 im not being unsympathetic rosesomg you know me well enough to know how i do nothing to change my situationyou doi have great respect for youand this must feel like yet another kick in the teethmy father lost his licence last year - because he collapsed in augustsince then they have not found anything wrong - but still wont let him drivehe has found it very hard - very diminishing i guessi really truly am sorryxxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dani Posted April 9, 2009 Report Share Posted April 9, 2009 sorry about your license hun.You will get through it.hope you feel better.xxxxxxxxxxxxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roses Posted April 9, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 9, 2009 I text my husband to tell him and he made no response. He will probably tell me I am over-reacting. I'm so sorry everyone to keep going on about it and thank you for your support. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dani Posted April 9, 2009 Report Share Posted April 9, 2009 I text my husband to tell him and he made no response. He will probably tell me I am over-reacting. I'm so sorry everyone to keep going on about it and thank you for your support.he might have not got your text yet or maybe he would rather talk when he gets home.xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roses Posted April 9, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 9, 2009 You are right, I am being paranoid, sorry babe and thanks for replying. He just got in and gave me a big hug and said it doesn't mean I'm a failure. Sorry for bleating on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dani Posted April 9, 2009 Report Share Posted April 9, 2009 Hey don't be sorry.......glad you got a big hug!!!your far from a failure hun.xxxxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roses Posted April 9, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 9, 2009 I am tiny and powerless and pathetic. I am like a baby crying in the morning sun. I am but a speck in the Universe and so insignificant I could burn out tomorrow and it wouldn't make a difference to anything. God help me I am a sinner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tray Posted April 9, 2009 Report Share Posted April 9, 2009 hey hun, so what meds you on now? do we have to tell the dvla bout our MH probs... didnt know thatanyway, try and look at the positive, no more mom being taxi driver, no more worrying about the rise in fuel,no more stressful rush hour driving, being able to relax in the passanger seat and watch the world go by... being able to look the smart arse's in the face when they bleat on about the ozone layer and say, well i dont drive lolthink of all the fresh air (unless you live in the midlands) you will be geting an your walks, think how helthy you will get, get an mp3 player, put some fave music on and walk places... and best of all........... you are no longer able to be designated driver!!!hun, things happen for a reason, maybe the break from driving will do you good... xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roses Posted April 10, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 10, 2009 Thanks Tray I feel a bit brighter this morning. I am on a lot of meds and some ones that make you very drowsy. You are also obliged to tell your insruance company. 9/10 they just say it's fine and ask your doctor to verify this in writing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roses Posted April 22, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 So I got an application form for bus pass and sent it off a week ago with photos and that. Now they've sent me another letter saying I have to either send in letter from DVLA (which I do have) or get my pdoc or GP to fill in the form and verify my symptoms. What a waste of fucking money. Surely they could just ask the DVLA and it would be cheaper than hiring staff to print, post, postage etc... and it just delays getting the damn thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thesloaneranger Posted April 23, 2009 Report Share Posted April 23, 2009 im so sorry to read about how your feeling and losing your license because of something that isint your fault is really harsh. i hope that at least your bus pass wont be held up anymore than it has already. *hug* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roses Posted April 23, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 23, 2009 Thank you loneranger. I guess when life throws you lemons you gotta make lemonade! xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dani Posted April 23, 2009 Report Share Posted April 23, 2009 ice in that please roses! xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roses Posted April 23, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 23, 2009 Seeing as it's you... xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AveMaria Posted April 23, 2009 Report Share Posted April 23, 2009 Good luck, Roses with the bus pass and your license! I don't know how the UK works, but in the US you can sometimes get around things like that if you have a doctor monitor you for a bit and they say you would be able to stay awake... My fiance who is narcoleptic had his license taken away for a bit, but now has it back as long as he goes and gets tested a couple times a year by the doctors. I'm thinking of you and I like the lemonade quote. Its nice to see you still being positive.xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roses Posted April 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 24, 2009 Thank you Ave. I appreciate the support. xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Broken doll Posted April 26, 2009 Report Share Posted April 26, 2009 Hi Roses,I hope things are better for you? I know what it's like to have your independence taken from you, maybe that's why you're throwing up? because these are big important things in your life that you rely on and now they are being taken away, perhaps you are punishing yourself too?anyway, i hope that you are ok and talking about this with therapist or something?you are special hunny. and though you don't feel it you are an important part of life.you know the butterfly effect?take it one day at a time and I'm here for you! xo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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