Dani Posted December 6, 2009 Report Share Posted December 6, 2009 Sometimes we are great at giving advice but not taking it!i should listen to myself sometimes and follow my own advice. id tell myself to get a grip...move forward and concentrate on what i have. .....id also give myself a good slap ...but thats another story ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ambrosia Posted December 6, 2009 Report Share Posted December 6, 2009 Advice i would give myself is.......Stop talking bull s*** and get a life ,give good advice and be helpful to others! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dani Posted December 6, 2009 Author Report Share Posted December 6, 2009 i think you do give good advice lavender id tell myself....Stop thinking you wont be a good mum...you ARE a good mum! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Villan Posted December 6, 2009 Report Share Posted December 6, 2009 id say to myself - you are worthy of love and attention and support (cos that is the main thing i tell my friends and cant accept when they say it back at me) Good Thread BTW ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dani Posted December 6, 2009 Author Report Share Posted December 6, 2009 very true chit xxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Data Posted December 6, 2009 Report Share Posted December 6, 2009 There is no point in giving myself any advice. If I had any advice to myself that was worth giving, I'd have given it to myself and acted on it by now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dani Posted December 6, 2009 Author Report Share Posted December 6, 2009 you have given good advice to others though... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanctuary Posted December 6, 2009 Report Share Posted December 6, 2009 I'd say let go...........you don't have to be with someone to be someone..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
just.me Posted December 6, 2009 Report Share Posted December 6, 2009 Advice I would give myself? Think before you move those digits bird, and don't text/email a load of old bollox without thinking first! Actions have consequences, and think of those. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Data Posted December 6, 2009 Report Share Posted December 6, 2009 you have given good advice to others though... I do it a lot less now. My words seem hollow. I can't make myself better. Theres lots of things that SOUND good, its just in practice they seem to make no difference. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
just.me Posted December 6, 2009 Report Share Posted December 6, 2009 Data You do give good advice, and it does not just sound good it is good. I wish that my words would sink in, but I know it is hard for you to accept any form of praise but you should. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marchmadness Posted December 6, 2009 Report Share Posted December 6, 2009 Hey - It is a good thread - Advice I would give myself would be to remind myself I am not where I want to be, but I am sure as hell not where I used to be! Progress may happen slowly at times, but if you keep moving forward thats all that matters. March Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jinxsta Posted December 6, 2009 Report Share Posted December 6, 2009 To me, Well, if its going to happen its going to happen.... go out there and have fun, live wot u got left to the full....be yourself and feel no shame for it. Your not a bad person just do bad things sometimes......move on... the past is a concept, the future is a concept....live in the NOW. xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn W Posted December 10, 2009 Report Share Posted December 10, 2009 Jinxta, you got there before me!! Was about to say, I try to remind myself that the future doesn't exist yet and the past has gone, all I have is now, nothing is hurting (phsyically) I can breathe, I'm not hungry, my loved ones are safe (now) and that when I can go into my mind there are places that are untouched, unhurt and still full of love and hope (thanks to Dr kabat-zinn!!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dani Posted December 10, 2009 Author Report Share Posted December 10, 2009 today i need to tell myself that i'm lucky to have what i have...and that i can get through the next few days Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skp67 Posted December 10, 2009 Report Share Posted December 10, 2009 I need to tell myself to let others help,they do mean what they say...... Well some of them. xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saffron Posted December 11, 2009 Report Share Posted December 11, 2009 at the end of the day, if no one cares, dont give up on yourself.# Saffron Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink stars Posted December 28, 2009 Report Share Posted December 28, 2009 Umm, the advice I would give to my-self is... Don't worry what any one else thinks of you, be who you want to be Don't worry so much Learn to toughen up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corpsewithpulse Posted December 29, 2009 Report Share Posted December 29, 2009 You can't go back in time so forgive the past and move on. Nothing falls into place on it's own. Be proactive and make things happen. The mind, body and spirit are the only things one can truly influence so look after yourself. Negativity is self fulfilling so keep that chin up. Much worse things have happened to much better people. Use humility rather than envy, it's much more virtuous and fulfilling. Never be caught napping when you have the opportunity to give life a good crack. Otherwise, life will crack you a lot effing harder. Listen to one's own sodding advice!!! Good thread by the way:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dani Posted December 29, 2009 Author Report Share Posted December 29, 2009 corpsewithpulse...i agree with everythin you said! xxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donnam Posted January 3, 2010 Report Share Posted January 3, 2010 what i would tell myself: the friends that have treated me like crap, when all i have done is be there for them are not true friends. stop waiting my time and energy worrying about what i may have done wrong. it is not me it is them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Data Posted January 3, 2010 Report Share Posted January 3, 2010 I'd say: "stay away from alcohol!" OK. I'm off to the shop..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ocean Wolf Posted January 3, 2010 Report Share Posted January 3, 2010 Advice I would give myself now would be to look forward until next weekend when we (hopefully) will be going to counseling and we will receive a new game in the mail. Oh yeah and I should also write down the things I want to bring up while at the counselor's. Advice I would give myself a week from now would be to ask about the friend situation while I am the counsellors. who knows, maybe they will be able to tell me it will be ok. Advice I would give my past self would be to get a driver's license. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dani Posted January 3, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 3, 2010 tonight i'd tell myself to calm down and try to rest Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benway Posted January 4, 2010 Report Share Posted January 4, 2010 My advice to myself is quite simply 'If nothing changes, nothing changes.'. A.m Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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