mhair Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 feeling like a no one, have no friends, im in an empty place he told me i cant be me have to comprimise wtf ?? let her be who she wants cos shes an adult FFofff Therapist man :angry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silverwolf Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 (((((Mhair))))) just wanted to let you know i read this and feel for you. I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you both x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhair Posted February 4, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 im not allowed an opinion i might as well be gone :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dani Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 hugs...please stay safe xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littleweed71 Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 im not allowed an opinion i might as well be gone everybody has a right to an opinion you're no exeption if you need 2 talk i'll be here for a little while longer hugs lw Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhair Posted February 4, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhair Posted February 4, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 im not allowed an opinion i might as well be gone everybody has a right to an opinion you're no exeption if you need 2 talk i'll be here for a little while longer hugs lw ta lw xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhair Posted February 4, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 i want to wear what i want to wear and listen to music i want but im not allowed, stupid man spoke to me like im an idiot edit...keep forgetting to put my name andy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carol-E Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 ((((hugs)))) Please stay safe xxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhair Posted February 4, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 edit...keep forgetting to put my name andy another thing i get in trouble for andy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carol-E Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 Not from me mate - I'm c**p at remembering names anyway It is never nice when people talk to you like your an idiot. :bigarmhug[1]: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhair Posted February 4, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 thanks carol they dont understand me but then again im a teenager so they wont :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fireflies Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 Hey Andy I get that too. Want you to kno you got a friend in me and I won't ever tell ya to go south or talk own to ya! Thing with T's is they don't know what it's like to be an insider cuz they are book learnt and not experience learnt. Wht I do is........ get even! <drum roll> I talk about them in the third person when they are the only one in the room eg. Sarah often says we should do abc, If Sarah is here talking to me it must mean it's theapy time also take a note book with you and when they say somthing make notes like it's a light bulb moment. or I crack some joke about single personality disorder OR I tell them to think outside the square. OR offer them therapy. then again that's probs bad advice. I'm a bit of a sacastic bastard sometimes. It's jus how I have dealt with it in the past. I've found that I have to laff it off or it becoms a source of suffering. Thing is, only you and yours has a right to tell ya how to compromise and wht to compromise with! Such as, things like hair length and style needs to be sorted from inside and he primary personality gets the major choice on that. Same with tats or anyting life changing, or long term. Things like clothes when you are out, those ya can be more free on if you choose to since they aint permanent or long term. I think what he means by compromise is since you share a body you gotta share decisions and discuss stuff befor you act. It's like sharing a house. Can't just go paint th walls pink with out discussing it first. Do you guys have co consiousness? N E ways, Here if ya need to talk. I get similiar probs but over time we've learnt to work somewhat around it. Michael. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TizzyGirl Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 Andy, We get your frustrations, its extremely difficult especially when there is more than a few of you. But your thoughts/feelings/opinions also show your individuality, not just how you appear on the outside. Be proud of who you are and sod those try to make you feel otherwise. But also remember you are part of a whole, and compromises do need to be made nontheless. Christine x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhair Posted February 4, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 thanks ppl yeah we do have co consiousness well most the time, i guess i just wanna be me. stuff them. feel like they not listening to me, he just upset me saying why hadnt i grown up, i dunno do i, iam who iam. andy xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fireflies Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 Hey dude, can ya find a space where you can be you? Like here, you can be you. If you have an inside room you can be you there. I like playing adventure games like Everquest, I can be me there. or even just a couple of hours at home alone where you can do your own thing, listen to your own music and chill out etc. Don't matter what some shrink says. You will always be you and there is no changing it. Michael. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhair Posted February 4, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 he said to emo ask him why hes not grown up...... well emo ask him why hes such a dick head ??? i dare u !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhair Posted February 4, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 Hey dude, can ya find a space where you can be you? Like here, you can be you. If you have an inside room you can be you there. I like playing adventure games like Everquest, I can be me there. or even just a couple of hours at home alone where you can do your own thing, listen to your own music and chill out etc. Don't matter what some shrink says. You will always be you and there is no changing it. Michael. yeah i get to listen to my own music hehe......emo knows i want to listen to my music and she lets me, she likes all music anayway shes cool lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fireflies Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 the reason alters are not grown up is cuz often they re stuck in the age of the original abuse. Sometimes alters grow if they take on new abuse and move tothe age of that abuse. Most of the time they do not though. If this shrink don't know that then he is not qualified to treat you. Ask him for a referral to a more competant professional who specialized in DID. Michael. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TizzyGirl Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 if the twit knew anything about DID then he'd know the answer to the question anyway. grrrr dumb shrinks! sasha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhair Posted February 4, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 hes come home wants her to go bed.....yes i said sounding like her, but nah nah i gets my way lol im staying up a bit longer :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhair Posted February 4, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 hes not a shrink, hes a therapist wants to know why i havent grown up, but emo said well why u saying that cos you could say that about all the others.....hmmmmm he said good point.........that shocked him hehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TizzyGirl Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 dur!!! sasha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhair Posted February 4, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 thanks everyone feel a bit better now.good to have u ppl understanding thanks andy x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fireflies Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 Pyscologist, Therapist, counseller, psychiatrist... they are all just shrinks to me. Michael. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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