lou99 Posted March 19, 2012 Report Share Posted March 19, 2012 my husb is looking online at my barclaycard stuff he is about 2 find out all my & my alters' impulsive reckless spending he is gonna go nuts i owe bout 6 or 7 thousand shit shit shit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bena.baby Posted March 19, 2012 Report Share Posted March 19, 2012 ((lou)) Just try to be honest with him. What's done is done, there's no point in dwelling on the past, just try to find a way together to pay back the money. Debt is scary, but it can be managed. You could try one of the debt charities, they are normally helpful and it won't end up costing you any more money. He might be angry for a bit, which is probably reasonable, he might need some time to get over it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lou99 Posted March 19, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 19, 2012 he very calmly said " we owe 18000 quid" he read all the crap i spent it on he is gonna explode sometime soon... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AmyP Posted March 19, 2012 Report Share Posted March 19, 2012 hope everythings ok hun xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JasmineRose Posted March 19, 2012 Report Share Posted March 19, 2012 He doesn't owe it, you [all of you] owe it. Is there no way any of it can be sent back? Or sold? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shadow girl Posted March 20, 2012 Report Share Posted March 20, 2012 Hugs. Hope you both find a not too painful way forward. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lou99 Posted March 20, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 20, 2012 i just need to do something damaging..... i either starve or get blind drunk or self harm or put £100 on credit... better the sh really i guess... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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