Tan19 Posted July 1, 2012 Report Share Posted July 1, 2012 So happy for you pandora x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abee.abee1991 Posted July 3, 2012 Report Share Posted July 3, 2012 so many things are happening at the minute it's just crazy... me and bf have got a house sorted we're moving in at the end of next month. it's so lovely, as soon as we walked in i just loved it we've seen some really horrible places and for only a tiny bit extra we've found a great place which should be worth a lot more than we'll be paying! job training is going fine, am getting on with my portfolio and continuously looking forward to starting work i know it might be a struggle at times, but it's something i really want to do and i'm going to talk to my keyworker to see what support i can get if it does get hard. i went to a clinic today to see about getting treatment for my scars. i've reached a point where i don't want them anymore, so am going to do everything i can to minimize them. the woman was lovely, really kind and caring but not patronizing. she said she would see what she could do and look into treatment. when i got back she rang to say she has spoken to a plastic surgeon she used to work with and he said he will see me free of charge to give me advice on what options there are so hopefully i can at least get something done to minimize them a bit, even if they don't go away completely. a few days ago i broke down to my bf about how much it bothered me that he was doing nothing to help look for a house. i was looking during every bit of free time i had organizing viewings in between work training, an he was doing nothing despite the fact he's going on holiday soon and has plenty of free time. he also did nothing of his own accord, i had to tell him to do even basic things over and over that i really shouldn't have to be saying, like ringing about money and applying for more hours at work. he completely took in what i said and apologized, an since then he's a lot more involved in things, he looked for houses and applied for more hours at work. he also helps clean up, just found him washing all the pots and the living room is clean! nearly fell over feel like i'm starting a new period of my life. am not going to fall into the trap of thinking it will all just go away, but am going to continue going to dbt and try to work through things with my bf rather than just keep it all inside and self-destruct. feels like my life is finally starting Just want to say I am so happy and proud of you and you really deserve all these good things. Wishing you all the best for your future Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AmyP Posted July 3, 2012 Author Report Share Posted July 3, 2012 so many things are happening at the minute it's just crazy... me and bf have got a house sorted we're moving in at the end of next month. it's so lovely, as soon as we walked in i just loved it we've seen some really horrible places and for only a tiny bit extra we've found a great place which should be worth a lot more than we'll be paying! job training is going fine, am getting on with my portfolio and continuously looking forward to starting work i know it might be a struggle at times, but it's something i really want to do and i'm going to talk to my keyworker to see what support i can get if it does get hard. i went to a clinic today to see about getting treatment for my scars. i've reached a point where i don't want them anymore, so am going to do everything i can to minimize them. the woman was lovely, really kind and caring but not patronizing. she said she would see what she could do and look into treatment. when i got back she rang to say she has spoken to a plastic surgeon she used to work with and he said he will see me free of charge to give me advice on what options there are so hopefully i can at least get something done to minimize them a bit, even if they don't go away completely. a few days ago i broke down to my bf about how much it bothered me that he was doing nothing to help look for a house. i was looking during every bit of free time i had organizing viewings in between work training, an he was doing nothing despite the fact he's going on holiday soon and has plenty of free time. he also did nothing of his own accord, i had to tell him to do even basic things over and over that i really shouldn't have to be saying, like ringing about money and applying for more hours at work. he completely took in what i said and apologized, an since then he's a lot more involved in things, he looked for houses and applied for more hours at work. he also helps clean up, just found him washing all the pots and the living room is clean! nearly fell over feel like i'm starting a new period of my life. am not going to fall into the trap of thinking it will all just go away, but am going to continue going to dbt and try to work through things with my bf rather than just keep it all inside and self-destruct. feels like my life is finally starting Just want to say I am so happy and proud of you and you really deserve all these good things. Wishing you all the best for your future Thank you LBB hun. I hope you managed to get housing sorted. Am free to pm if you ever want to talk xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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