Fanta Posted November 19, 2012 Report Share Posted November 19, 2012 I don't know the forum seems to have gone nuts and my anxiety has gone through the roof. Tonight it is driving me insane, I know the mods and admin can't help that. I feel invisible and like I don't exist here. Is it just me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maddison Posted November 19, 2012 Report Share Posted November 19, 2012 No hunni, I don't like that I can't see how many times a topic is viewed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
successful_workthru Posted November 20, 2012 Report Share Posted November 20, 2012 Sometimes I feel invisible when my posts don't get answered right away, or, when I make a phone call and get an answering machine. If you, like me have got low self esteem, these things can feel really personal like life is saying, noone likes us, but it's not true. Posts don't get answered straight away cos people don't always log on when we post so may view the topic later, same with phones, people may be busy, asleep, in the shower, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jinxsta Posted November 20, 2012 Report Share Posted November 20, 2012 I understand, thats why i haven't been posting.... but it worries me as a sign of reliance :-/ xx xx xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JasmineRose Posted November 20, 2012 Report Share Posted November 20, 2012 I understand the anxiety of feeling invisible to others, often it leads to intense rage in me. What might help you to feel that you safely exist here? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jinxsta Posted November 20, 2012 Report Share Posted November 20, 2012 *Edit... double post, sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yvette Posted November 20, 2012 Report Share Posted November 20, 2012 Hugs growly! Xxx you are very loved here x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lucy Posted November 20, 2012 Report Share Posted November 20, 2012 poeple somtimes dont know what to say and just read often they dont know what to say so your post count will go up neither means your beinging invisable somthimes its easier to say what you need like a hug advice etc then your needs can me met and people know what to do but its not you as bananas says you are loved here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maddison Posted November 20, 2012 Report Share Posted November 20, 2012 The problems with the forum not seeing others online I thought was the discussion!? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fanta Posted November 20, 2012 Author Report Share Posted November 20, 2012 Yes Maddison that is what I mean. The whole forum on a basis is making me feel anxious I can't see anyone online.x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eagleheart Posted November 20, 2012 Report Share Posted November 20, 2012 I really hate it.I don't know who's on,i feel scared by it.I already have huge issues with feeling that i am constantly being ignored/disregarded. Why is it not sorted yet? I do not want to use the forum atm and that's a shame,because i want to be here for others. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maddison Posted November 20, 2012 Report Share Posted November 20, 2012 People didn't read what you wrote Growly they gave you the generic lip service "We all care but are hurting too" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abstract312 Posted November 20, 2012 Report Share Posted November 20, 2012 Dear Growly, If you still feel anxious and in crisis just please go back to this thread and read these posts and I am sure their value and the amount of support they illustrate will distract you at least for a bit. Indeed, some people interpreted your post differently i.e. they didn't interpet it in the context of the forum technical difficulties.but I think it is absolutely lovey that they were there for you offering you reassurance and compassion. To be honest these forum tech issues aren't affecting me, but I completely understand how they can affect one and thus hope they fix it soon. By the time that happens just go back and look at these posts if you feel in crisis. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fanta Posted November 20, 2012 Author Report Share Posted November 20, 2012 sorry I didn't mean to sound ungrateful. I just hate how the forum is right now, I know it's a tech issue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abstract312 Posted November 20, 2012 Report Share Posted November 20, 2012 You did not sound ungrateful at all I was just suggesting a way for you to distract when you feel anxious about it,think of the love you are getting here :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maddison Posted November 20, 2012 Report Share Posted November 20, 2012 Absolute was being righteous to me Growly! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddy harper Posted November 21, 2012 Report Share Posted November 21, 2012 nope its not just u i feel it to Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saharah Blue Posted November 21, 2012 Report Share Posted November 21, 2012 Being articulate particularly when English is not her first language and she studies language is no reason to dismiss her post. She just wants you to feel better which is not a slight on anyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddy harper Posted November 21, 2012 Report Share Posted November 21, 2012 i want to feel better but i cant because the voices wont let me... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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