dolphin92 Posted February 9, 2013 Report Share Posted February 9, 2013 I could really do with a hug right now. Is it sad that I don't even remember the last time I had a proper hug? Pathetic I know. I've managed to convince myself that my ex never had any feelings for me, that he really had feelings for my friend and it's fucking me up. Also the guy I have feelings for has not contacted me at all, we haven't spoken in about 3 months. How could he be so cold? How could he not give me a response not even to reject me when it took so much for me to open up to him? Hate feeling worthless, or second best. No guy has ever treated me like I'm not worthless, or not second best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeaBee Posted February 9, 2013 Report Share Posted February 9, 2013 I think the guy that hasn't got back to you, it could be that he likes you, maybe not in the same way but consequently has avoided contact. That doesn't mean it isn't hurtful I'm sure it is. I really hope you meet the right person that makes you feel as special as you are. Sending hugs to you. B. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dolphin92 Posted February 9, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 9, 2013 Yeah maybe, I hope that's the reason why... It's a bit of a fucked up situation, because he used to like me, but I turned him down (I hadn't long broken up with someone). Now I've realised I like him and now he's not interested. It's so ironic. Thanks BeaBee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeaBee Posted February 9, 2013 Report Share Posted February 9, 2013 This time next year we could be in our Californian mansions with our dream men/women! I better go pack. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
successful_workthru Posted February 9, 2013 Report Share Posted February 9, 2013 Big hugs ((((((Misunderstood))))))))))) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dolphin92 Posted February 9, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 9, 2013 This time next year we could be in our Californian mansions with our dream men/women! I better go pack. sounds good to me, good job I ordered my bikini yesterday! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dolphin92 Posted February 9, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 9, 2013 Big hugs ((((((Misunderstood))))))))))) Thanks successful_workthru *hugs back* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AmyP Posted February 9, 2013 Report Share Posted February 9, 2013 *hugs* hun, sorry your feeling lonely xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pickle59 Posted February 9, 2013 Report Share Posted February 9, 2013 (((((( misunderstood ))))))) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Threemoons Posted February 9, 2013 Report Share Posted February 9, 2013 I've a HUGE good hug for you, Misunderstood, here take all your time in friendly arms. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dolphin92 Posted February 10, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 10, 2013 Thanks Pandora, Pickle59 and Threemoons, hugging you all back xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyheartemma Posted February 10, 2013 Report Share Posted February 10, 2013 (((((missunderstood)))) My mum gives me hugs all the time but they are duty hugs. They aren't the same. My dad only hugs me when my mum tells him to. It's not pathetic to want a proper hug. Everyone wants to feel loved and not everyone does. I'm sorry the guy hasn't contacted you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fanta Posted February 10, 2013 Report Share Posted February 10, 2013 ((((((Misunderstood)))))) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
successful_workthru Posted February 10, 2013 Report Share Posted February 10, 2013 (((((missunderstood)))) My mum gives me hugs all the time but they are duty hugs. They aren't the same. My dad only hugs me when my mum tells him to. It's not pathetic to want a proper hug. Everyone wants to feel loved and not everyone does. I'm sorry the guy hasn't contacted you. I never liked my mums hugs either. It was as if she was saying "I treat you horrible but I want you to love me" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dolphin92 Posted February 11, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 11, 2013 (((((missunderstood)))) My mum gives me hugs all the time but they are duty hugs. They aren't the same. My dad only hugs me when my mum tells him to. It's not pathetic to want a proper hug. Everyone wants to feel loved and not everyone does. I'm sorry the guy hasn't contacted you. lonelyheartemma, sending you a big non-duty hug Thanks, life goes on I'm not going to let him stop me from wanting to live my life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dolphin92 Posted February 11, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 11, 2013 ((((((Misunderstood)))))) Thanks Growlycat, hugs back x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dolphin92 Posted February 11, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 11, 2013 (((((missunderstood)))) My mum gives me hugs all the time but they are duty hugs. They aren't the same. My dad only hugs me when my mum tells him to. It's not pathetic to want a proper hug. Everyone wants to feel loved and not everyone does. I'm sorry the guy hasn't contacted you. I never liked my mums hugs either. It was as if she was saying "I treat you horrible but I want you to love me" I'm sorry that you felt like that sending you big hugs My parents never hug me... on the rare occasions that they have, it's because I've complained that they don't hug me or because I've initiated it normally when I'm really desperate for affection Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
successful_workthru Posted February 11, 2013 Report Share Posted February 11, 2013 (((((missunderstood)))) My mum gives me hugs all the time but they are duty hugs. They aren't the same. My dad only hugs me when my mum tells him to. It's not pathetic to want a proper hug. Everyone wants to feel loved and not everyone does. I'm sorry the guy hasn't contacted you. I never liked my mums hugs either. It was as if she was saying "I treat you horrible but I want you to love me" I'm sorry that you felt like that sending you big hugs My parents never hug me... on the rare occasions that they have, it's because I've complained that they don't hug me or because I've initiated it normally when I'm really desperate for affection Sorry to hear that. My mums hugs were more like demands. They were not giving me love, more like asking me for love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dolphin92 Posted February 11, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 11, 2013 (((((missunderstood)))) My mum gives me hugs all the time but they are duty hugs. They aren't the same. My dad only hugs me when my mum tells him to. It's not pathetic to want a proper hug. Everyone wants to feel loved and not everyone does. I'm sorry the guy hasn't contacted you. I never liked my mums hugs either. It was as if she was saying "I treat you horrible but I want you to love me" I'm sorry that you felt like that sending you big hugs My parents never hug me... on the rare occasions that they have, it's because I've complained that they don't hug me or because I've initiated it normally when I'm really desperate for affection Sorry to hear that. My mums hugs were more like demands. They were not giving me love, more like asking me for love. Ah I see what you mean, you deserved hugs from your mum that showed you love, and I wish that that's what you had. Sending you a big hug Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
successful_workthru Posted February 11, 2013 Report Share Posted February 11, 2013 Thank you misunderstood, hugs back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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