Cactus Posted October 24, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 dr said sent report last week.dla said not got it.daughter rang dr to fax it.they say got to wait another week in case it arrives FFs.is it going to fuck their day up if they spend 3 minutes to send fax.hope she catches something off another patient.or gets bird flu or cjd or ecoli Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cactus Posted October 24, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 health visitor going to fax it in the morning then phone me.so just wait and seeand while im waiting going to ring drs and send receptionist on wild goose chase for notes on non existent patient :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lauren Posted October 24, 2005 Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 Luck for the next few days babe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cactus Posted October 24, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 Ta. think i gonna need it.Luck to you too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toonkate Posted October 25, 2005 Report Share Posted October 25, 2005 he he, claire, i hate doc receptionists! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cactus Posted October 26, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 no-one faxed it had my daughter on phone to them all for last half hour :angry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lauren Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 Can be a real nightmare c.Hang in there,shouldnt be to much longer.Least if you do get it,it will all be backdated.xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flying fish Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 I have to do DLA reapplication. Just the thought of the forms makes me in a panic. Constantly having to prove myself and having everything I say doubted brings back so many emotional memories. Used CAB last time. They helped, but I think it is a bit hit and miss, depending on the person you get given on the day. I'll look at the sites suggested at the beginning of this thread. I was seen as a psychotic depressive last time around. Now I am officially borderline, the answers are going to be harder I think. No meds to prove I am genuinely ill and not just making a fuss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cactus Posted October 26, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 *sigh* wanted some cash while son on half term.nightmare trying to keep him occupied.was hoping he could of gone to few sports activities to wear him out.bills to pay and no money to pay them with and difficult not knowing if im getting it or not.prob could be more patient if i knew i was def entitled to it. too scared to think of consequences if im not going to get it.only other solution is to go on the game and my head fucked up enough as it is have had to ask Ex for nexts weeks maintenance this week.so going to be fucked next week.he gets great kick out of being able to say im useless. :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lauren Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 ((((Hugs)))))You will not do that!. I would rather give you money than see you do that.Jeezus Claire! (((((hugs)))))Dont know what your financial situation is,are you in reciept of income support?There must be (far) better options available to you.xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cactus Posted October 26, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 no.wouldnt to it in reality but thought does cross my mind.I feel shit bout myself as it is.that would only make it worse.prostitution is just nother form of self harm i guess.Thanks for replies.just on sick pay from work and tax credit.then had to find £200 for brakes and other stuff that needed doing to car.boys so hyper since T started school was hoping to take them to sports stuff to hopefully divert their energy into that.which would hopefully help my stress and anxiety for bitC :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cactus Posted October 27, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 27, 2005 fucking piss take or what,went through nightmare getting through to health visitor to sort out fax as was told dla couldnt sort it till they had report then ring today to check its arrived and yes it has but wont be dealt with till next week as staff on holiday.Wtf do they hope i top myself before they sort it in order to avoid paying me :sm.jpg: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paddypotty Posted October 27, 2005 Report Share Posted October 27, 2005 Shit that is awful,possibly ask for a crisis loan,might be able to get it on tax credit,might be worth a go.Patricia Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cactus Posted October 29, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 29, 2005 had to resort to buying gm food now im so hard up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toonkate Posted October 29, 2005 Report Share Posted October 29, 2005 u need to start growing your own! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrs tree Posted October 30, 2005 Report Share Posted October 30, 2005 You can apply for a community care grant or a budgetting loan aswell ( not sire if that the same as a crisi loan) the community care grant doesn't have to be paid back if you are awarded it/.Mrs Tree Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cactus Posted November 3, 2005 Author Report Share Posted November 3, 2005 claim not a success so i got to write and ask them to reconsider.Dr who wrote my report had never seen me and obviously never bothered to read my notes as he said i got mild depression.can anyone help?have got reasons why but dont understand as I wrote what i cant cope with etc and they say i can.My usual Dr off sick they hope she back next week.so i gonna bug them til i get to see her .havent even got energy to be angry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lauren Posted November 3, 2005 Report Share Posted November 3, 2005 linkGo to that website.Great for advice.You can ask for advice on the forums as well.Apparently the chances of getting a positive result are much higher if you go to a tribunial rather than just asking them to reconsider.In the mean while gather as much evidence to support your claim as possible.Ugh, just visit the site think it will really help you to decide how to go ahead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toonkate Posted November 3, 2005 Report Share Posted November 3, 2005 wow claire, cant beleive i didnt get itkeep pushing it tho, bet u get it in the end Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barebones Posted November 3, 2005 Report Share Posted November 3, 2005 awww sunny you never got it makes me wonder if i will either keep going on at them though hun. (((huggies))) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cactus Posted November 3, 2005 Author Report Share Posted November 3, 2005 Thanks.head all muddled atm and cant think straight.checked that site L going back when head straight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cactus Posted November 3, 2005 Author Report Share Posted November 3, 2005 :( basically iM fucked.going to take months for appeal and i havent got that sort of time.i need it urgently.I followed all advice on how to fill in forms etc when i filled them in,im fucking angry and pissed off sick of not being believed.ffs not been to work for months and cant see a time when i will be able to.cant cope going out alone.cant cope with cooking.leave windows wide open downstairs all night.have fucking nightmares.go out and leacve doors unlocked.leave money in cash machine when withdrawn it.burn food everytime i try and cook.can only manage having both boys at home 3 nights a week if someone else stays with me.huge debts .aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhfucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it fucking sick of it AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH :sofa: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toonkate Posted November 3, 2005 Report Share Posted November 3, 2005 dunno wot to advise reallydeffo appeal it tho, worth it if u get the money eventually, and it will be back dated so u will have extrat to pay off debtsmaybe try for a crisis loan or something Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flick Posted November 3, 2005 Report Share Posted November 3, 2005 hopeur feeling ok hun Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paddypotty Posted November 3, 2005 Report Share Posted November 3, 2005 I was turned down first time I applied so dont give up,it would help if shrink was someone you could confide in,that way they get the whole picture,keep trying.Patricia Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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