HardeyFromUK Posted September 17, 2014 Report Share Posted September 17, 2014 I have to say my BPD has been made worse by this site. I came here for support and made an intro and not one person said hello. I notice almost everyone else has had come kind if response. So, the regular members have clearly ignored me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peregrine Posted September 17, 2014 Report Share Posted September 17, 2014 I'm really sorry for this. I'm struggling right now but know what loneliness feels like and feeling ignored. I'm sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
artemis84 Posted September 17, 2014 Report Share Posted September 17, 2014 Hardey, I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm really sorry I missed your intro post. Sometimes things get missed but I'm honestly sure no-one will have knowingly ignored you - that's just not the kind of place this is. I can only apologise that you found the site to be negative for you and hope you can move past it. I would like to welcome you here, should you choose to stay. Hope you are ok. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
addy2 Posted September 17, 2014 Report Share Posted September 17, 2014 I didn't see any introduction post sometimes we don't and sometimes it's not very busy either try posting on another topic area in the forum x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisgarrett Posted September 18, 2014 Report Share Posted September 18, 2014 Dont think people ignored you buddy I didnt see your post either so I can only assume the same goes for the rest Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dolefulpoet8 Posted September 19, 2014 Report Share Posted September 19, 2014 Hey hardy, I havent been on this site since 2011 and I can almost understand why you would feel like it made you feel worst. Support is so very important for people like us. We get triggered so easily. Be assured that you're in a place where people care and read things will get better. It's great you've expressed your disappointment, we need to be open. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HardeyFromUK Posted September 19, 2014 Author Report Share Posted September 19, 2014 51 views and only 5 bother to look and most make excuses. The truth is nothing was missed because everyone else was noticed around the time I posted. It is strange that I come to a BPD site and yet the very thing we avoid is happening! I feel much worse and I'm off. And that is from a 40 year old man that has had years of treatment for BPD. However, I have rapid cycling bipolar also...so...maybe not so easy. It does not get better. It hurts that much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
artemis84 Posted September 19, 2014 Report Share Posted September 19, 2014 ... Edited because Jenny said it all and in a much more positive way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenny1471 Posted September 19, 2014 Report Share Posted September 19, 2014 Hi Sorry you feel ignored and hurt. I guess everyone here is for similar reasons, so I personally find it a little harsh that you accuse people of making excuses when they are trying to explain, especially when we have all registered on an online support forum for our own reasons. But I also hear this is how you are feeling.. you are feeling ignored and not part of the forum, and I'm sorry about that. I do wonder whether an online forum is the right place for you though as it's common for any thread (not just yours) to get many more views than responses. If you're going to count how many responses you get instead of hearing the words of those 5 who did bother to respond, then a forum may well do more harm than good in your recovery? It sounds like you're not staying anyway so I really do wish you well and am sorry that you feel this way but hope you are able to find help and support somewhere that will help. Take care Jenny Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
addy2 Posted September 19, 2014 Report Share Posted September 19, 2014 I think your actually rather rude unless we actually open the page we can't see what you've written and people have had the good manners to say sorry and your saying we are making excuses. A lot of people in here are struggling just maybe no one had nothing today try thinking of others instead of offended those who did reply to you I've posted loads on here and sometimes people don't reply maybe there not feeling good themselves maybe they have nothing to say it's a support forum for everyone and if you want to leave well that's up to you it might be for best seeing as you have possibly offended people already Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dice Posted September 19, 2014 Report Share Posted September 19, 2014 Your going to get more views on a post with the name you called it... So what you got five replies on this one and none on your other, Many people on here get no replies either on their posts... Your not the first nor the last, No one here made you worse from far it... Plus if it was that bad why make a post or even come back on here again??? I very much feel you're attention seeking!!! So therefore this is all I'm saying as your not worth my time because I'm not someone who will play along with attention seeker!!!... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisgarrett Posted September 21, 2014 Report Share Posted September 21, 2014 I dont feel attatcking someone due to the fact they may have got it wrong is a good idea. Nor very helpful..... Hardey I wont rite you off buddy if you need a chat pm me but please be patient as my internet is a little speradic at best however I will always reply as and when I can... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
walker Posted September 21, 2014 Report Share Posted September 21, 2014 we don't write people off however - like you feel hurt by this - so do others we can ALL hurt others in the midst of our own pain I have been here over 6 yrs know loads of people very well still need support and sometimes try to give support I often read posts but since my head is mostly telling me I have nothing worth contributing because I am always wrong - I often don't reply I STILL - after all these years - struggle when my posts are apparently 'ignored' it is upsetting and triggering all that self hatred and loathing and inadequacy feeling like I am being targeted, picked out, hated, don't belong, not heard I really do get those feelings and lots more - every week at least BUT I have also received some of the most amazing and life saving support here I have learnt a vast amount about myself and my 'condition' and about others I have learnt (most of the time) to keep some of my rage 'against the world' to myself - because I need the world to be there for me and yes I know that at some point, someone will answer, someone will care, someone will hear - even though I still have to remind myself daily of this and if they don't, I am allowed to ask for help again we all want attention here if we didn't we wouldn't be posting hope this helps Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PDBPD Posted September 21, 2014 Report Share Posted September 21, 2014 What I like about this forum is members can discuss...not always agreeing...move to another topic and the same people are supporting each other. Keep that in mind Hardey...before you walk away please Steve Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddy harper Posted September 22, 2014 Report Share Posted September 22, 2014 hi and welcome. I have bi polar trays in my personality as well as having bpd Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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