james1982 Posted October 16, 2014 Report Share Posted October 16, 2014 Ok mum is drunk and on the war path again and getting more wine i hate alchol so much i feel its going to be a very very long and hard night ahead this really tires me out sigh 囧 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eagleheart Posted October 16, 2014 Report Share Posted October 16, 2014 Can you be in a seperate room from her? A place that she won't bother you? I hope you can just avoid her. You don't need the stress.x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
james1982 Posted October 16, 2014 Author Report Share Posted October 16, 2014 I am but she will come in and then the row starts she crying at the mo anger is next Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eagleheart Posted October 16, 2014 Report Share Posted October 16, 2014 Well at least you have this place for support. Use it as much as you need. This is YOUR space. She can't take that away from you.x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
james1982 Posted October 16, 2014 Author Report Share Posted October 16, 2014 Thank you hun r u ok hows ur evening going i be ok i am used to it by now i just know that it drink talking not her and just try calm her down Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Threemoons Posted October 16, 2014 Report Share Posted October 16, 2014 Sorry for your mum, James. Does she get any support at all for her drinking problem? I hope the night is not too hard on you and that you can rest correctly. Talk anytime you need, we're here for you. Take care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
james1982 Posted October 16, 2014 Author Report Share Posted October 16, 2014 Thank you mum has a lot of issues to and she uses drink as a crutch but it doesnt agree with her she turns nasty on it at times Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenny1471 Posted October 16, 2014 Report Share Posted October 16, 2014 Hi Sorry it's a difficult evening. I hope things improve and you are able to look after you. Just to say too that I got your message but cannot reply for some reason as it says something about it being deleted. I have no idea, but don't want you to think I'm ignoring you as I'm not.. just cannot seem to reply. Take good care Jenny Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
james1982 Posted October 16, 2014 Author Report Share Posted October 16, 2014 Hey thank u for the reply this is such a bad night just want to cry T_T Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel tears Posted October 16, 2014 Report Share Posted October 16, 2014 So sorry u r having such a rough night mate, I have lived with alcoholics and been subjected to their nasty outbursts etc and violence and it has traumatised me. Huge hugs, here to talk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
james1982 Posted October 16, 2014 Author Report Share Posted October 16, 2014 Thank you hun and thank you all for ur kind support tonight it was a big help B-)B-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel tears Posted October 16, 2014 Report Share Posted October 16, 2014 Anytime mate :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
james1982 Posted October 16, 2014 Author Report Share Posted October 16, 2014 Huggggssss B-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PDBPD Posted October 17, 2014 Report Share Posted October 17, 2014 James...I am an alchohlic...not taken a drink for many years now...I feel angry though. Your mum needs to take responsibilty for the damage she is causing to you and herself How are you today?? Steve Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
james1982 Posted October 17, 2014 Author Report Share Posted October 17, 2014 I am sorry i made u feel angery unfortunaly mum will never admit she has a problem with drink i am ok thank you for asking and i think ur so strong how u were able to stop drinking and stay off it B-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PDBPD Posted October 17, 2014 Report Share Posted October 17, 2014 James...you didn't make me angry mate...knowing the effect my once behaviour caused makes me angry I used AA 12 step programme I still attend meetings and mentor alcholics. Once you are an addict you always are...I am still an alcoholic...i can't have one drink...it would be a bottle...and another.. Addicts are selfish...there is always a reason to feel like you can have another drink...take it out on other people Steve Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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