GingerSnapped Posted November 6, 2014 Report Share Posted November 6, 2014 Hello All, I am a 30 y/o woman with bpd. I was diagnosed with BPD and depression/anxiety as a teen. It seems to have worsened after a bad marriage and an incident with my father. At the moment my biggest difficulty is forging healthy relationships post divorce. Looking forward to getting to know you all! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
artemis84 Posted November 6, 2014 Report Share Posted November 6, 2014 Hi and Nice to meet you, hope you find the forums useful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ravenwing Posted November 6, 2014 Report Share Posted November 6, 2014 Hi there. *waves* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GingerSnapped Posted November 6, 2014 Author Report Share Posted November 6, 2014 Thanks for the warm welcomes! Having a low mood day today so they are much appreciated. Ravenwing, your cat looks like my new kitten :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Threemoons Posted November 6, 2014 Report Share Posted November 6, 2014 Hi Ginger, warm welcome on the forums. If we can do something for you we'll surely do. Big good hugs for you, hold on! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mert Posted November 6, 2014 Report Share Posted November 6, 2014 Hey I've done post divorce stuff can relate pm me if u wish..... Mine was a controlling wanker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GingerSnapped Posted November 6, 2014 Author Report Share Posted November 6, 2014 Dissociating badly (for me, which comparatively probably isn't that bad) all day after feeling rejected last night by the guy I'm seeing. I know I overreacted, but that doesn't change how painful it still feels...it's been a painfully lonely day. My bestie says that I tend to date men who are beneath me (I'm a small business owner and men find me attractive...I don't see it) so they won't leave me and I won't feel lonely. And they end up being jerks anyway, or worse, I pull/push until they've had enough. I'm starting to wonder if I'm better off alone...but then the loneliness and feelings of being unlovable overwhelm me and I try again. Sigh... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitsune Posted November 7, 2014 Report Share Posted November 7, 2014 Hi Ginger, welcome to the forum, hope that you find it useful. Sounds like you're going through a rough patch lately *hugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ratherin Posted November 7, 2014 Report Share Posted November 7, 2014 Hello welcome to the forum I also have BPD anxiety/depression, it's horrible and I can relate to feeling alone and unloved.. but then thinking i'm better off alone, as things never seem to work out and it hurts like hell.. but then so does being lonely! hope you are ok today Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GingerSnapped Posted November 7, 2014 Author Report Share Posted November 7, 2014 Doing better this morning. I have a busy weekend in store, so hopefully that will keep my mind occupied! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ratherin Posted November 7, 2014 Report Share Posted November 7, 2014 Good to hear Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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