Data Posted December 23, 2014 Report Share Posted December 23, 2014 The title says it all. I am a computer scientist. I've had some bad results from my work this week. I've spoken to two people so far who believe my results are wrong, since they have apparently done similar investigations in the past and got very different results. If my results are wrong, I'm going to look a complete dick, since I have shared them out to my superiors. My credibility has been in question in the company and I don't feel they respect me so this is going to hurt. If the results are correct, it probably means that what I've been doing over the last year has been a waste of time and I am going to be out of a job. I'm feeling stressed and fed up and wondering what the point of anything is. But I am managing to cope, although I'm a bit less motivated than usual. I had a break in my sobriety on Friday night, I drank nearly a whole bottle of whisky in front of my wife and children . Fortunately I've managed to stay sober since. I am not a fan of Christmas (bah humbug!) but I am looking forward to a week off work. The trick is going to be keeping myself occupied so I don't worry about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddy harper Posted December 23, 2014 Report Share Posted December 23, 2014 So sorry to hear this data. Hope things improve when you go back. Hugs. Well done for not drinking. I know how hard it is to quit as i use to have a drink problem when i was n my teens. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Threemoons Posted December 24, 2014 Report Share Posted December 24, 2014 Sorry, Data, I hope you can relax while you're off and that things will be better when you're back. You had a bit of a alcohol lapse but you can start your abstinence again. Please don't resent yourself for this. The end of this year was tough for you professionally so I wish that the new one coming will start better. Take care and merry Christmas to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel tears Posted December 24, 2014 Report Share Posted December 24, 2014 ((((Data)))) try to relax with your week off hun, I know easier said than done but you are trying your best hun xxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddy harper Posted December 25, 2014 Report Share Posted December 25, 2014 I know how easy it is for us to say but try to relax if u can. Try to be kind to your self to. hugs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimindigo Posted December 25, 2014 Report Share Posted December 25, 2014 For now,and for future use,do dear self a favour and get this book: "Self-Compassion" by Kristin Neff. Blessings, jimindigo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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