helenh Posted February 16, 2015 Report Share Posted February 16, 2015 Hi all, Really wasn't sure where to post this. My ex, who i am trying reconcile with, has asked me to write a letter to his parents, who understandably hate me, explaining why things happened, and why i want to be with him and how i want to make sure this never happens again. Sounds like a reasonable request and i am trying to keep my head thinking that, i said i would do anything to bring us back together and i dont want to go back on it. i just hate his mum so much, she suffers with mental health issues amd his dads a doctor, through all of the shit we have been through the last 7 years neither of them took the time to notice that there was more to my actions than just being a nasty person. i know i shouldnt put blame on them, and im not really, just feel worked up about explaining all that to them and have them reject it and still hate me. i also dont want to make things difficult for my ex. his mother is going to hit the roof, no matter how much i explain and he explains how he feels xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
walker Posted February 16, 2015 Report Share Posted February 16, 2015 sorry but don't see why you should write them its your marriage to 'him' not theirs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MischaD Posted February 16, 2015 Report Share Posted February 16, 2015 Yeah I agree with Walker, I don't think it is fair to expect you to have to explain yourself to them. You don't need their approval. As adults you are in this relationship together and not with his parents. Hope it all goes well for you, good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddy harper Posted February 17, 2015 Report Share Posted February 17, 2015 Keep us posted if it helps get it all out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
helenh Posted February 18, 2015 Author Report Share Posted February 18, 2015 i havent said anything more to him about it. i know what people mean, that i shouldnt have to, but i wouldnt have to see them and it would make things easier for my ex to talk to them and tell them we are going to try again. its a stessful thing to do but if it helps us in the long run maybe its not too much to ask xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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