Life is sweet Posted October 22, 2005 Report Share Posted October 22, 2005 Well, as everyone on here knows, it effin sucks dealing with tough emotions. Hurt, pain, abandonment, loneliness. I'm trying to cope with my emotions about leaving my old therapist right now. I'm doing rather good so far, but was wondering if anyone had any new ideas that, god forbid would make the process fun! lol! I've been self-comforting, rocking myself, blankets & pillows, comfort objects and stuffed animals, talking to myself, soothing myself. I dunno. Just something new perhaps would be nice. I'm just tired of the same old thing. That's actually amusing in a weird way. Hehe. Thanks for any ideas!Meganxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barebones Posted October 22, 2005 Report Share Posted October 22, 2005 dissapear in a good book or keep yourself bz those jobs that never get done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrs tree Posted October 22, 2005 Report Share Posted October 22, 2005 I like aromatherapy candlesself soothing can also be about looking after yourself having a manicure or a facial....doing it at home if you don't want to go outtake caremrs Tree Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joshua Posted October 22, 2005 Report Share Posted October 22, 2005 a lonvely warm bath, candle light and some soothing music. ummmmm cya lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Life is sweet Posted October 22, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 22, 2005 Mmm. Thanks. New ideas, w00t! So, spa/relaxing time, cuddling up with good book, little jobs that need to get done and candles/inscents. Good. Good! Thanks guys! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lauren Posted October 22, 2005 Report Share Posted October 22, 2005 Get trashed (Sorry,but its true.Works short term) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suchcrazyness Posted October 22, 2005 Report Share Posted October 22, 2005 yeah, did that last night, and yes, last night I had a GREAT time.don't even have a hangover. (drink lots of water before you pass out)but the terrible mood is still back... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toonkate Posted October 22, 2005 Report Share Posted October 22, 2005 Velveteen is too young to get trashed!i would go for the bath option, but then u have to dry your hair and shit after! grrrrrrrrrrcant think of anything useful to say!!!sry hun! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Life is sweet Posted October 22, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 22, 2005 Thanks Kate anyhow. Bath sounds good. Gotten drunk before, not trashed. With friends last year, but am trying not to use that anymore as an escape or anything. Life is just better without drugs and alcohol. I'm loopy enough as it is, I don't need that stuff. :rolleyes: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrs tree Posted October 23, 2005 Report Share Posted October 23, 2005 if you live near IKEA they have some devine smelling aromatherapy candles for only a £1( big ones in glass holder Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toonkate Posted October 23, 2005 Report Share Posted October 23, 2005 i love ikea, but cant go anywhere like that alone, and have no-one to go with me!!poopers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Life is sweet Posted October 24, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 yeah, we have places like that. Peir 1 Imports is good but somewhere in California I'm sure there's an IKEA. they sell lots of good things there. my personal favorite is Target! :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toonkate Posted October 24, 2005 Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 i liked target, went there a few times when on hol in florida Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cactus Posted October 24, 2005 Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 you can get ikea catalogue ring them to send you one.dont mention florida- slag ex sis lives there in winter.this countrys' weather not up to her standards velvet go treat yourself to some new clothes and hairdo :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debra Posted October 24, 2005 Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 more ideas. try to get out but if not there are fun sites on net, if you don't fancy that, try listening to a good lite c.d personally when i feel crap i put the music on loud and dance round like an idiot but thats me :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Life is sweet Posted October 25, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 25, 2005 woot for dancing around like idiots! I sing like an idiot in the car. It's quite amusing to anyone listening..lol I got a new hairdoo a few days ago when I was on vacation seeing my dad. That actually reminds me that I wanted to order a new sweater for the winter out of Delias. It's this cutsie catalog for teens--love it! http://www.delias.com if you're bored by the way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
budgie Posted October 25, 2005 Report Share Posted October 25, 2005 surf the netkeep postingn one thing that seem rather "primitive" to me ... but i do it .... take a piece of blank paper(s), either draw, or, when it is really bad, just keep on writing n repeating a sentence, for me, the worse i got to was jus writing XXXXXX XXXXXXXXX repeatedly for pages! :unsure: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Life is sweet Posted October 27, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 27, 2005 Hm, interesting Budgie. Try it out sometimes perhaps. I take a piece of paper and write as many words as I can think of that begin with B. Or as many things I can think of that are blue. Then go on to red, or orange, etc. Or A, B, C, etc. Then it distracts your mind from whatever may be overwhelming you. Works well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anabel Posted November 1, 2005 Report Share Posted November 1, 2005 retail therapy is a brilliant way to distract yourself and watching something funny on tv..laughter is great medicine. bel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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